Posted by Charm on June 15, 2004, at 9:02:15
In reply to Re: SOMEONE HELP ME, posted by mattsit on June 15, 2004, at 8:38:45
Hello Mattsit -
I have to hardily agree with Snapper. This truly sounds like a situation for you that needs to be worked through with a qualified therapist. I know how it feels to be obsessed with a situation or idea and while the Lexapro may certainly help you see things from from a better perspective I doubt it will make this problem go away for you.
I'd like to encourage you to seek help as soon as possible --- the therapist may be able to help you clear this up in a short period of time and I feel for the misery that you are obivously feeling. It sounds like you have a great wife and would like to be able to move forward in your relationship with her.
I'm certainly not an expert, but it does seem to me that its time to cut your ties with your ex-girlfriend. Putting time and space between your ex and yourself will help you leave the past and focus on the present and future.
I wish you the best and hope your suffering eases soon.
Charm
I wish you the best
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