Posted by vandy on November 7, 2003, at 23:56:23
In reply to Re: No warning - why? - Anger is OK, posted by MissB on November 6, 2003, at 19:21:05
You might find this surprising but I'm trying to support you, too! I'm afraid I didn't use the right words. I'm not saying your anger is not justified. On the contrary, it's very justified. I'm just concerned as to whom it will harm and whom it will help. I know from experience that it won't help you. Yes, if you pose the situation in the right way to the person to whom you now direct anger you'll probably resolve the issue but anger seldom works that way. It usually makes us go in with guns blazing and a pained look in our eyes. The pain makes it difficult to point the gun accurately. So who gets hurt in the end? Certainly not the object of our anger! They are oblivious. That's part of the reason we are angry. Their apparent lack of understanding, compansion and thoroughness makes us livid. But do they feel it? Nah! The guy whose insides are chewed up is the guy experiencing the anger. The guy who gets ulcers and depression is the angry party. That's for whom I have the concern. I'm not finding fault with you. I just want to protect you. It's my thing. I want to make everyone safe. I'm doomed to fail, I know but it doesn't keep me from trying. And I guess it doesn't keep me from hoping.
> Thank you so much for the support. Needless to say my emotions are not what they should be and to say I've been stressed lately would be putting it mild. I was laid off four months ago and my insurance ran out at the end of October. I decided to take my remaining perscription for Celexa and head to Canada. Well, through an online pharmacy anyway. I found that buying Celexa from this Canadian pharmacy is going to cost half of what I would pay out of pocket here. Drastic measures maybe, but I have to say I feel better with the prospect of going back to Celexa. All in all I guess it frightens me that Dr. are allowed to give pills to people without knowing the full effects. Is it their fault or the FDA's?
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