Posted by ksvt on October 4, 2000, at 14:46:42
In reply to Re: dependency, depression and mutilation, posted by stjames on October 3, 2000, at 11:21:52
> > Tried therapy, 4 times. All times did more harm than good and I'm very nervous to try again.
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> James here.....
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> As I said it is the only thing that will get you better so look for another person that you connect
> with. This is your only choice if you really want to get better. Yes it will hurt some, you have to deal with the hurt in the past so it can no longer
> hurt you. Otherwise you are not going to get better on just meds alone.
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> jamesI concur with what James says. Just from reading your post, it sounds as if you are terribly isolated. You need to establish some connection to create a support system for yourself that extends beyond your boy friend who may be chafing a bit at your dependency. I, too, have seen several therapists and probably spent alot of money needlessly but there is no future in worrying about past experiences and those bad experiences certainly don't mean that therapy won't help. Please try to hook up with someone. ksvt
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