Posted by bob on May 29, 2000, at 13:07:38
In reply to thank you friends, posted by kathy on May 29, 2000, at 1:40:17
Kathy,
I'm so sorry about the baby ... I'm sure there are others here who can help you through that loss.But as for that rat b*st*rd of an ex-husband -- contraception is a two-way street. If HE didn't want children, then HE should have taken the responsibility to see that it would not happen. Personally, I don't think God would punish us for anything -- we seem to be quite capable of self-inflicting pain as it is -- but if anyone was deserving of such, IMO, it would be your ex. I think the pain you are feeling now says a lot about the kind of mother you will be some day, that it hurts you so deeply right now. I also think that your ex's attitude demonstrates how worthless he is as a husband, as a father, and as an adult who is supposed to take responsibility for his actions. Don't let his faults drag you through the mud on this.
be well,
bob
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