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Posted by susan47 on August 26, 2009, at 18:39:48
In reply to Re: blocked for week » susan47, posted by Dr. Bob on August 15, 2009, at 1:03:26
If I posted only that which could lead to others being put down, I wouldn't have posted any of the following:
On August 12, 2009, at 13:55:45
.stuff like that ... it's just so corrupt out there, and everyone is complicitly blind.
on August 9, 2009, at 15:37:46.all the Bastards Advertise, and we are the idiots who have given them the information with which to target us.
Most Horribly:
on August 9, 2009, at 19:22:02.At least half the humanity of this planet could be done without
(without apology, knowing about corrupt, sick people who rape, torture (!?!?!?), take advantage of, behead and play a sick version of kickball with the head yes this is a true story, and many, many, many, innumerable, it seems, other stories like this one . Mankind is ill and has never been more ill than right now, simply because there has never, that we know of, been this MUCH humanity here at once before. And it is getting far, far worse than we ever could have imagined, or wanted to know, had we seen what is coming.
So no, without apology. In past human history, parents have cannibalized their very own children when they were starving. Without apology. Open your eyes and see yourself, see your human-ness, it stares back at you, it is truly inescapable.
No, I am not Mad. No, I am not angry. I just see, and listen, with all eyes and all ears, Open.And,
.Ignorance is free, and freely given and shared in a guise of smart-*ss*d righteousness.
on August 12, 2009, at 13:39:45
.I am not an American (thank goodness, but I'm no better either,.
I wonder if the schizophrenic United States government will find it their right to abuse me for being honest, without threat, just being honest about the way I feel from what I witness and see and hear all around me . I have many criticisms of my own countrys policies of blindly closing both eyes and feeling in the dark, and the pocket my government puts its hands into is the same as any other corporate fraud, corporate greed, corporate policy, corporate money, corporate advertising, corporate promises it will never end. Only a severe thinning of the human population is what is about to occur as nature takes her course, with all eyes open. All ears hearing. Listen. Humankinds errors have been too many, and too great. There will be a great thinning. There will. And I, I will be dust, as will you, as will we all .. how we get there is all that ever mattered, and we were blind. Deaf. Blind. There is no religion that will save any one of us although many religions have forecast that future from the past. From the past. We have not changed in time. Not all of us care about what we have become our children and should they have children also god forbid there are great terrors about to come, Listen. Our children and our childrens children will be asking, hands raised, palms open, what have they done? They have sacrificed us. They have sacrificed us, so that they could Have.
on August 12, 2009, at 14:12:43
.become Enlightened. And .if you write to defend the keeping of outdoor cats, you write in ignorance about the state of Nature this day, that would be Today.on August 12, 2009, at 14:24:42
.Are you sneering or smiling?.... and .you kind of have that Sopranos look.Oh, heres a good one, on May 30, 2007, at 23:17:48
.Heavy, heavy heaving f*cking shitinthesky Sigh.
F*ck
You.
on May 31, 2007, at 20:40:57 .F*ck the Everly Brothers.on August 11, 2007, at 23:49:21 .Heavy effing sigh, baby.
on July 31, 2009, at 16:01:51, most offensively for some poor sobs, (there, another thing you can Block me with, Dear Bob and Deputies, .there is no god. And this is ripe with possibility, .my Rights as a Human Being usurp your rights, because I was luckier, I was born here and you were born there, and misinterpretation, surprised I didnt hear from anyone but why would I? Nobody reads this stuff, am I right? Okay then.
on July 31, 2009, at 20:56:44 you wiener, you absolute wiener and You are a bastard of the first order, the first degree, do you understand that,
on August 2, 2009, at 0:52:56 .that a full-grown woman of 52 would refer to herself as a "girl". I mean, really, what utter crap. Speaking of myself of course, but I suppose others in the same place might be offended. Im sure there are many of us.
Posted by susan47 on August 26, 2009, at 18:49:56
In reply to Re: blocked for week » susan47, posted by Dr. Bob on August 15, 2009, at 1:03:26
I'd like you to consider something; seeing the backsides of two people was a shock, considering that not too long ago, in my recent memory, in fact, within the last couple of years, there was a rear-end experience that many babblers had to see, unfortunately, and I was completely triggered by this photo and unfortunately, didn't realize it until afterwards. So that is why I posted it was unattractive. It was far too reminiscent of what recently happened here, which was a Crime. A true crime. A crime which was really really sick, and when I come onto Babble, I still wonder what photo I'm going to see.
So you see, not all of us have forgetful memory banks. At least, not when it comes to some things.
And I would expect a supposed professional like you, "Dr" Bob, to understand something like this. I would have expected you to make some queries before indulging in some Susan-battering of your own.
Quite frankly, I am disappointed that PC has indulged herself in these hurt feelings because she made a decision to take this her own way. It is unattractive because it is much too reminiscent of something Very Bad, from a Sick mind, that happened on Babble, and it was triggering. Did I trigger something of PC's? Obviously. The same trigger lots of people have, and it's meaningless to take offence because you think someone else didn't see you as gorgeous. That was only PC's interpretation, I tried to make myself understood, but I'm not giving PC leeway to treat me like sh*t because she's taken it upon herself to be offended, in fact, I would rub that wound until she explores it and gives it up, life is too short to be offended that you think somebody doesn't want to see a picture of your backside.
The jerk who put his *ssh*l* and colon up here a while ago certainly wasn't offended that we thought it was the ugliest thing we'd ever seen. I'm quite sure of that.
AND I AM NOT MAKING A COMPARISON TO PC'S BACKSIDE!|!!|! It was a trigger. Does anyone get that???
Dr. Bob, I'm disappointed in you.
You're a lot more nearsighted than I gave you credit for.
But then, you're an administrator of a board, to me.
Nothing more.
Posted by Sigismund on August 26, 2009, at 21:14:23
In reply to Dear Dr. Bob, posted by susan47 on August 26, 2009, at 18:39:48
>Mankind is ill and has never been more ill than right now, simply because there has never, that we know of, been this MUCH humanity here at once before. And it is getting far, far worse than we ever could have imagined, or wanted to know, had we seen what is coming.
So no, without apology. In past human history, parents have cannibalized their very own children when they were starving. Without apology. Open your eyes and see yourself, see your human-ness, it stares back at you, it is truly inescapable.
No, I am not Mad. No, I am not angry. I just see, and listen, with all eyes and all ears, Open.
Posted by susan47 on August 28, 2009, at 22:56:26
In reply to Dear Dr. Bob, posted by susan47 on August 26, 2009, at 18:39:48
others feeling put down, etc., to finish the original idea. The idea is, I really don't care too much about others feeling put down if I think I'm telling the truth as I see it.
And I've always known people who back away from that because they just cannot handle it, they don't know what to say. So they say stuff like this,
WTF??? As PC posted to me on Babblemail.
WTF?
And as America tortures and incriminates innocent people, and the Muslim world becomes more and more fundamentalist and angry, back-against-the-wall-stop-screwing-with-our-reality and leave us the F*CK alone
(although I am not Muslim, but I can imagine how one would feel, as America continues to push her self-given right to exert her self-indulgent might, what US Customs calls "Homeland Security" ... and that doesn't sound right, calling the US a "Homeland" is like the US trying to take the right of a person to have any other country named as my "Homeland" away .... it's too authoritarian, it's too obvious ... and we are all as a collective World just standing there allowing the US to do this to everyone, to finger the world, and call this country, this America, (as though Mexico and Canada were not also part of America) ... taking the right to call itself America and then now also taking the right to call itself the homeland.
My homeland is not America.
In the eyes of the United States government, who has yet another President who allows himself to be ignorant of all the under-the-table and behind-closed-doors things that happen in his own government ... in medaieval times, there was a system ... a citizen, an ordinary citizen, anybody, could be employed to check up on anyone performing a government service, and then report about their performance .. and apparently, this worked and it kept many many levels of governance honest.
We're so dulled and dimwitted now, we can't seem to see the value in anything that isn't programming our heads.
Blind, blind and stupid, and in the end, we will all get what is coming, and no mistake about that.
I am at this time writing from what we call a "free country".
And I know my opinions could be controversial and could get me into trouble, if we were to believe what we see on television, that wonderful mass marketer and promoter, if we were to believe what television is feeding us, it's possible the writer of stuff like this could become a hit target.
And I guess that's all we really are in the end, you know that, right?
In the end, we're a mass of meat and bone.
And that is really disturbing.
Because it means that the magic is ephemeral.
And we don't appreciate the Life we have.
We're buried to realities, here in this "Homeland", this "America" .. insulated and all trying to beat one another to the who gets to retire with the most toys Wins.
Blind.
And Stupid, apparently.
Posted by susan47 on August 28, 2009, at 23:04:58
In reply to No. If I posted only that which Did Not lead to, posted by susan47 on August 28, 2009, at 22:56:26
-toys, who-gets-to-go-on-the-most-cruises, who-gets-the-nicest-retirement-car, on and on ad nauseum, mentality of this society.
And everyone seems to want the biggest piece of that particular pie.
And there aren't enough pieces.
And so what the f*ck do you think is going to happen?
Ask yourself.
Ask in the quiet and the dark of your room at night, and listen to the answer the wind brings to your ears.
Listen.
Carefully.
Posted by susan47 on August 28, 2009, at 23:15:23
In reply to And in our lifetimes too » susan47, posted by Sigismund on August 26, 2009, at 21:14:23
That your are inevitably, as am I, as are we all every one, part of the problem. Everyone. There is no one whose being part of a "solution" is a bigger contribution than their simply having become part of the problem by simply being.
Just being, is the problem.
Because we have shown collectively and individually that we're incapable of change in the time we had allotted to us.
That is what we are left standing with.
And anyone who cannot see that is either hiding in his or her religion, and that is a very, Very Big Contributor to the Problem here, make no mistake. Make no Mistake.
Religion is a thief-in-the-night, religion will take what you call your soul and sell it to the lowest bidder ... the card that allows you to be complacent in the face of your dread mortality, the card that allows you to feel Saved, the card that allows you to think that this is not All there Is, and therefor the most important.
Religion is the thief who takes your desire to make the most of This Moment, and put it aside for later.
Religion is mumbo-jumbo for the simple-minded, and sometimes also for the strong-minded but weak-willed ... and I don't give a f*ck Who I might be Offending.
So either hiding in religion, or "faith", or self-given Authority of another type, perhaps academia .. or fake science.
And there are fake scientists. People who daily try to make honest scientists look dishonest ... there is a lot of fake science in our world, and fake people who believe the fake science because they are uneducated in the facts.
The facts being contained in the mirror, and the facts.
And the facts are, humans are slowing asphyxiating themselves in their self-created atmosphere.
And there's gonna have to be a whole lot more vegetarianism, and fast.
And people are going to have to give the thought of a "housecat" a whole new meaning.
And to be honest, I could just about murder any cat I see wandering the neighbourhood.
That is how much I care, and how human I am.
No less than you.
Take note.
Posted by Kath on August 30, 2009, at 18:20:13
In reply to Please Read, posted by susan47 on August 12, 2009, at 13:34:26
Post #1
>What's with the unattractive picture of the back
sides of two women doing on this site?
Post #2
> All I meant was, I am unattractive from the back as well~ ~ So let me get this right...not only is it an unattractive picture of my back side, but you're owning up to having an unattractive back as well as moi & the other person in the pic??
> It's really interesting how many times people read something I wrote and just go into the negative, right away, without thinking or even considering (did anyone consider? did I? I was guilty of assuming others may have understood my real meaning. I was wrong.. again.)
~ ~ I'd be interested to know what other conclusion might have been jumped to. Maybe I'm just being dense.
Kath
Posted by Kath on August 30, 2009, at 18:32:42
In reply to Which Shows Your, posted by susan47 on August 28, 2009, at 23:15:23
Susan,
I'm sorry to hear that you were triggered. Being triggered is obviously not a pleasant experience & I'm always sorry to hear that someone has been triggered. Sometimes I am even nervous that my 'subject line' will trigger a person if it says, ***.........trigger*** because even the one word could be a trigger.
I though of the picture of PC & I as this:
A photo of 2 friends standing with their backs to the camera.
As opposed to:
A photo of 2 women's backsides.
There certainly were numerous parts of us in the photo - not just our bottoms!
The only reason it was from the back was that apparently that's a customary way for photos of Babblers to be shown on PB.I don't usually visit this 'board', so only read this now.
Kath
Posted by susan47 on September 7, 2009, at 0:18:34
In reply to Re: Please Read » susan47, posted by Kath on August 30, 2009, at 18:20:13
No. You misunderstand me. I am saying, incorrectly as usual, as always, to some people, that I don't like seeing the back of anyone, I don't care if it is Raquel Welch or Britney Spears or Madonna, I don't like the backs of people.
I have a problem with people walking away, and looking at the backs of people. It feels ... snoopy. Like, they don't see I'm seeing this side of them .. and I don't like what I look like from behind, either, because I like seeing the fronts of people.
Get it?
Posted by susan47 on September 7, 2009, at 0:21:18
In reply to Re: Which Shows Your » susan47, posted by Kath on August 30, 2009, at 18:32:42
I'm so sorry I had to explain myself once again, and that Doctor, Dr. Bob, didn't get it either.
Obviously.
Being blocked is too much like punishment.
Nobody with a brain in his or her head would ever, Ever, consider punishment as a means to bring about change in a person.
Unless, of course, you're abusing your Power.
Get it?
I certainly did.
Posted by susan47 on September 7, 2009, at 0:27:46
In reply to Re: Please Read » susan47, posted by Kath on August 30, 2009, at 18:20:13
Kath, what you did was, you flipped off the high diving board and put your own meaning where mine was.
Posted by susan47 on September 7, 2009, at 17:35:47
In reply to Re: Which Shows Your » susan47, posted by Kath on August 30, 2009, at 18:32:42
back side, not on the frontal or the coronal or the saggital, but the dorsal view .. does that suit your offended sensiblities a bit more? I don't believe there was even this much aggression shown towards the absolute Criminal who (that? Surely, not a human being!!!) .. monster who posted his colon and gross, ugly droopy bag here for the world... sick slender-fingered smelly-holed of that it is certain, ring-bearing *ssh*l*, literally ...
so Kath and PC, who won't read anything Susan47 posts anymore because she might be triggered, and is too sensitive and delicate to have commentary about her photo, but no problem, apparently, putting a photo up here .. why do something so public and then not be able to handle the reactions of others? Did you think you would only get positive commentary? Really? Seriously? Isn't that a little egocentric, I mean, did it serve anyone to get that upset over my remarks? And no, I can't stand the fact that there are photos of people here at all, unless they're anonymous babies, and even then it doesn't erase what happened here at Babble -
if you have to stand with your back to the camera, my question for you is Why? Why Bother? Can't we have some beautiful landscape or flowers up there? Why do we constantly have to look at views of people ...what could one's motivating factor possibly be in having his or her own image on the site? Aren't there enough beautiful things we could be looking at? The other thing, why bother with a photo at all? It was hacked into once, couldn't it be done again?
Why take the chance? It seems extremely irresponsible of "Dr." Bob to be taking that risk. I don't care who says what, computers can be hacked, programs can be hacked, it's irresponsible and self-aggrandizing.
And why oh why, is this "Dr." Bob so silent and non-comittal, but still pulling the photo strings, still pulling the pupeteer's strings ... it's all about power.
I can start my own blog that no one would ever visit, and that would be really really depressing, but I mean I can see why it would look like too much of a responsibility to put your name on a site like this one. Too much work, too much hassle, not lucrative enough.
Lucrative.
A physician's favourite word, in private, whispers upon whispers, moans and groans and grunts and growls ... lucrative, is this lucrative enough for me?
Is it good economics?
The fundamental problem with our societal structure .. morality gives way to economics, to religion, to politics ... the natural world, the mother who sustains us all, is completely sidelined and second-guessed and given NO RIGHTS whatsoever ... and people continue to kill and maim others, and create great destruction and evil ... and I disagree with Salman Rushdie's character's words, words that reflect something like this and I use this without permission but then, my words are so gloomy, why would anyone read them, no one reads what I write anyway, unless there is an opportunity to Take Offence .. and there are many, many of those ... Saleem Sinai writes... "if everything is planned in advance, then we all have a meaning, and we are spared the terror of knowing ourselves to be random, without a why; or else, of course, we might - as pessimists - give up right here and now, understanding the futility of thought decision action, since nothing we think makes any difference anyway; things will be as they will." ... I disagree that there's terror in knowing myself to be random, without a why .. in fact, there's great hope there, because I get to invent myself, to live in This Moment, Here Right Now ... and it is not true at all that nothing we think (or do) makes any difference anyway; things will NOT be as they will, because Fate is a human invention, a human-made idea, in the primal part of the brain a search for meaning, to bring life to our hallucinations, our dreams of being a warrior ... a turning towards a belief in something "greater" or "more powerful" than oneself .. knowing yourself to be powerful and able to do great and wonderful things seems to be too much for a very very many people to be able to handle in a Good way. Without a belief in a god of one religion or another. Without the need to take hours and sometimes lifetimes in ritualistic, often, very very often, warring practice. And it is true what Doris Lessing writes (once again no link to Amazon .. why the f*ck Amazon? Because it's the easiest, most convenient choice to link to? Are there no other online booksellers? Of course there are, even stupid little Susan knows that, there are MANY online booksellers who would LOVE to be linked into this site .. did Amazon strike the most lucrative deal? Why only Amazon? Don't even BOTHER to try responding to that question, I'm not interested in self-justifying b*llsh*t. The fact is, by being on this site one restricts oneself to someone else's idea of the parameters of the world .. this is television, this is movies, this is our culture, their culture, Any culture ... restrictively is how so many of us define ourselves, unable to look beyond and beyond, unable to imagine oneself capable of even the slightest change ... so much
Posted by susan47 on September 7, 2009, at 17:38:33
In reply to If you need to show your backside ... and it is a, posted by susan47 on September 7, 2009, at 17:35:47
And I am allowed to make my judgments, it is irresponsible, in my view, and self-aggrandizing, in my view, to take the chance of others being damaged and saddened by suddenly viewing a very, very nasty sight, so that one may add interest in the form of photos .. no doubt, of oneself.
Posted by susan47 on September 7, 2009, at 17:58:08
In reply to If you need to show your backside ... and it is a, posted by susan47 on September 7, 2009, at 17:35:47
.... Doris Lessing knew what she was talking about in her book "Prisons We Choose to Live Inside" ... most likely, out of print, but a book more important to us as humans now than ever before, becoming more and more crucial to understand stuff like this, that there are people who Enjoy War, who delight in the killing, the maiming, the raping and pillaging, the blood, the adrenaline, the power. And the risk.
There are many, many people like this on Earth. Many. Too many. Training suicide killers and child soldiers, children raised to be absolute monsters with no conscience awakened yet, able to do great Harm.
And so it becomes ever more important to take one's individual power to do the right thing, to be non-warring, non-dominant, to begin an official plea for the sanctity of Life, to respect ALL life, the life of the smallest creature to the largest, the most seemingly insignificant plant, the abundance of the beauty of this planet's natural rhythm and life force ... but man is really so ashamed and full of enmity for himself that he will murder his neighbour with no compunction to do otherwise, should he find the right justification. We all take planes boats trains cars buses, and perhaps it is only the poorest of us who is the most innocent .. or perhaps not, perhaps the poorest of us sells his children or maims them to become more efficient (here we have, once again, economics, the economics of starvation filling the atmosphere, a pale stench compared to ours of greed and dominance and need of luxuries!) ... to become more efficient as a beggar ... we think we are so civilized in the white world.
We do well to remember this: there go I, and the Grace of God has nothing whatsoever to do with it.
Nothing. It is your own choice; why not take it and be remembered for being Good, for your graceful handling of that which you were given, remembered for being part of a Great Solution.
Posted by susan47 on September 7, 2009, at 18:01:34
In reply to Rant, posted by susan47 on September 7, 2009, at 17:58:08
Why would they be unlike us in any way? What have we taught them, what are we showing them teaching them telling them what are they mimicking of us?
I say, Everything is a possibility.
We need to be the change we seek.
So simple. Asking so seemingly little, were it not for mankind's greedy blind eye.
Posted by Dr. Bob on September 8, 2009, at 4:48:55
In reply to Which Shows Your, posted by susan47 on August 28, 2009, at 23:15:23
> I'd like you to consider something; seeing the backsides of two people was a shock, considering that not too long ago, in my recent memory, in fact, within the last couple of years, there was a rear-end experience that many babblers had to see, unfortunately, and I was completely triggered by this photo and unfortunately, didn't realize it until afterwards. So that is why I posted it was unattractive. It was far too reminiscent of what recently happened here, which was a Crime. A true crime. A crime which was really really sick, and when I come onto Babble, I still wonder what photo I'm going to see.
Thanks for explaining. I'm sorry you were triggered, and about what happened here before. But I consider you-statements like:
> it was unattractive.
to be uncivil, whereas I consider I-statements like:
> seeing the backsides of two people was a shock
> I was completely triggered by this phototo be civil. Here's a post by Dinah about the difference that might help:
http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/admin/20040112/msgs/320097.html
> Religion is mumbo-jumbo for the simple-minded, and sometimes also for the strong-minded but weak-willed ... and I don't give a f*ck Who I might be Offending.
Please don't post anything that could lead others (such as those who have religious faith) to feel put down.
But please don't take this personally, either, this doesn't mean I don't like you or think you're a bad person, and I'm sorry if this hurts you. I hope that you choose to remain a member of this community and that this community helps you, if needed, to avoid future blocks.
More information about posting policies and tips on alternative ways to express oneself are/is in the FAQ:
http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/faq.html#civil
http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/faq.html#enforceFollow-ups regarding these issues should be redirected to Psycho-Babble Administration. They, as well as replies to the above post, should of course themselves be civil.
Thanks,
Bob
PS: According to the formula:
duration of previous block: 1 week
period of time since previous block: 2 weeks
severity: 2 (default) + 1 (uncivil toward particular group) = 3
block length = 2.86 rounded = 3 weeks
Posted by Kath on September 14, 2009, at 21:20:11
In reply to If you need to show your backside ... and it is a, posted by susan47 on September 7, 2009, at 17:35:47
> Why take the chance? It seems extremely irresponsible of "Dr." Bob to be taking that risk.
~ ~ Dr. Bob checked with me as to whether I was okay about it. I appreciated that he did that. ~~
> And why oh why, is this "Dr." Bob so silent and non-comittal, but still pulling the photo strings, still pulling the pupeteer's strings ... it's all about power.
~ ~ I suspect he 'pulls the strings' because it's his site! ~ ~
Posted by Kath on September 14, 2009, at 21:22:51
In reply to Judgment, posted by susan47 on September 7, 2009, at 17:38:33
> And I am allowed to make my judgments, it is irresponsible, in my view, and self-aggrandizing, in my view, to take the chance of others being damaged and saddened by suddenly viewing a very, very nasty sight, so that one may add interest in the form of photos .. no doubt, of oneself.
~ ~ I'm sorry - I actually laughed when I read this. I can't say that I've ever seen anything here that I thot was a very, very nasty sight!!!
I'm sorry if you are triggered by some of the photos.
K
Posted by Kath on September 14, 2009, at 21:27:22
In reply to Re: blocked for 3 weeks » susan47, posted by Dr. Bob on September 8, 2009, at 4:48:55
backside
as compared with:
back side
Reminds me of that "telephone" game where people whisper a sentence to the next person & them to the next. And by the end, the sentence hardly resembles what it was at the first!
I STIL don't think my back side is ugly OR my backside, for that matter! Nor my friend's!
:-)
Posted by susan47 on September 29, 2009, at 10:43:03
In reply to All for the want of ONE SPACE, posted by Kath on September 14, 2009, at 21:27:22
Ugly. Not at all. In fact, I remember seeing something really cute a photographer had done, a series of naked bums and it was funny and kind of sweet. As is the pic of the two of you from the back.
But I wanted to be mean and rude because it really did remind me, somehow, of the person who showed us his colon, *ssh*l*, the whole nine yards, obviously after sex with someone or something, and posted a photo of it here on Babble, and locked the page so no one could get onto it, which was probably a good thing, but the whole affair stayed on the page for quite a while; long enough to scare a lot of people away, me included, and it was grotesque and I'm surprised you don't seem to know about it.
Which is why I think it's irresponsible to have a photo up there of anything except maybe a painting of something very soothing.
It's wrong of "Dr. Bob" to post photos of children, too, as they aren't of the age of consent, tney're minors and children's photos are a trigger for those of us who've worked in policing.
It's irresponsible to say the least.
Ciao.
Posted by susan47 on September 29, 2009, at 10:44:34
In reply to Re: Judgment, posted by Kath on September 14, 2009, at 21:22:51
No, you are not sorry, that is very obvious.
You are ignorant of the facts, that is all.
Posted by susan47 on September 29, 2009, at 10:45:20
In reply to Re: If you need to show your backside ... and it is a » susan47, posted by Kath on September 14, 2009, at 21:20:11
A very good reason, reason enough, to discontinue visits here.
Posted by Kath on September 29, 2009, at 17:15:15
In reply to Re: If you need to show your backside ... and it is a » Kath, posted by susan47 on September 29, 2009, at 10:45:20
>No, you are not sorry
~ ~ Wow. I'm sure not used to being told how I feel. Oh well, I guess there's a first time for everything!
> A very good reason, reason enough, to discontinue visits here.
~ ~ Not sure if you mean I should leave Babble or you were going to?? It sounded like you were telling me to, but perhaps I misinterpreted it.
If you meant me - I'd just like to say that I do not think I should have to leave Babble because a Babble friend & I met, had a photo taken (not showing our face, as is Babble tradition, I understand) and sent it to Dr. Bob to see if he'd like to show it. Jeezie Louisee - we were fully clothed.
That inappropriate picture sounds awful. Hopefully not too many people saw it.
I don't usually do what almost feels like I'm 'bickering'. I apologize for my lack of control in being involved in keeping this discussion going as long as I have.
This will be my last post in this thread & I won't be reading any further posts here either.
And just for the record, I feel rather disgruntled, but I do not feel anger or dislike or anything like that.
Take care, Kath
Posted by Dr. Bob on October 6, 2009, at 15:18:27
In reply to Re: Judgment » Kath, posted by susan47 on September 29, 2009, at 10:44:34
> No, you are not sorry, that is very obvious.
> You are ignorant of the facts, that is all.Please don't post anything that could lead others to feel accused or put down.
But please don't take this personally, either, this doesn't mean I don't like you or think you're a bad person, and I'm sorry if this hurts you.
I do hope that you choose to remain a member of this community and that this community helps you, if needed, to avoid future blocks.
Kath, I'm also sorry if you felt hurt.
More information about posting policies and tips on alternative ways to express oneself, including a link to a nice post by Dinah on I-statements, are in the FAQ:
http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/faq.html#civil
http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/faq.html#enforceFollow-ups regarding these issues should be redirected to Psycho-Babble Administration. They, as well as replies to the above post, should of course themselves be civil.
Thanks,
Bob
PS: According to the formula:
duration of previous block: 3 weeks
period of time since previous block: 1 week
severity: 2 (default) + 1 (uncivil toward particular individual) = 3
block length = 8.75 rounded = 9 weeks
Posted by Kath on October 6, 2009, at 21:36:44
In reply to Re: blocked for 9 weeks » susan47, posted by Dr. Bob on October 6, 2009, at 15:18:27
> Kath, I'm also sorry if you felt hurt.
Dr. Bob, thank you for saying that to me. I felt shocked & hurt & as if I'd been slapped across the face.
I had said I wasn't going to read any more posts on this thread, but I decided to read your post & I'm glad I did. Thanks for being sensitive to how I might feel.
sincerely, Kath
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