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Posted by Susan47 on November 5, 2005, at 19:14:21
In this relationship. I'm the one who's exciting, who makes things happen, who rocks the boat, I'm the one who isn't afraid.
Fear drips from him like an aura.
It's disgusting.
But, married men can be like that.
Beautiful one moment, ugly the next.
Everything has to be in their own best interest,
for the good of one .. because they represent .. Family.
And what are you, to them?
Someone easily replaced.
Because these little boys only want the security of mommy's apron strings. And one can hardly blame them. Mommy was sexy, she was strong and she was good. She took care of you and you wanted to marry her.
So you did. And now you're happy. You have a best friend and someone who'll take care of you and someone you can be an insitution with, until one of both of you dies.
Hooray.
Posted by Susan47 on November 5, 2005, at 20:14:18
In reply to I'm the Fun One, posted by Susan47 on November 5, 2005, at 19:14:21
This rambles in directions no sane person would understand ... and some day I may not either. Please God (although I don't believe in such a thing, Thing, haha) don't let me be insane.
I've never been out with a married guy. I just find them too despicable. I've watched other people. It doesn't take long to learn. I almost had one person feel guilty about seeing me. Do you know what that does to you? It makes you feel like you did something wrong. And you haven't. You didn't do a damn thing, you just saw them for what they are. You, being me, of course. I just wish that in my lifetime I had slept with no man, because quite frankly, no man has ever been worth the trouble. And I feel kind of.. okay, impure, okay? For letting these other men touch me, men who are just worms like all the rest. Women are like that too, women can be not worth the trouble, they can be worm-like as well.
But finally I can honestly say, I'm not like that. That isn't me. That might have been you but it wasn't me. I like myself, finally. And if you've turned out to be disappointing as a human being, then that's not my problem, it was never my problem. I just took it on, because I felt sorry for your poor *ss. Do you believe me? Maybe I'm just being super-bitch. But do you know, if I had a brain I wouldn't share any of this stuff with you. Because it's all disrespected, in any case. You can be extremely disrespectful.
Posted by Dr. Bob on November 6, 2005, at 18:47:12
In reply to Re: I'm the Fun One Major Rant Don't Read, posted by Susan47 on November 5, 2005, at 20:14:18
> I've never been out with a married guy. I just find them too despicable.
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Thanks,
Bob
Posted by Susan47 on November 10, 2005, at 0:04:20
In reply to Re: please be civil » Susan47, posted by Dr. Bob on November 6, 2005, at 18:47:12
Married men in themselves are not despicable.. their behaviour becomes foolish though, when they're trying to get away with fooling around on their partners. That is what I meant by "despicable".
I do apologize if I've offended any married men who are acting foolish. Trying to hide what shouldn't be. Hurting others without really meaning too, but too selfish and self-absorbed to do anything else. Guilty behaviours, behaviours which make them look foolish. I've seen it. I'm sorry if that offends anyone.
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