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Posted by rjlockhart37 on January 23, 2013, at 20:47:34
well....i know i've posted about this, but again i forgot to do some things around the house and my parents are really mad at me again....and i know its not a big deal with at home but in work conditions and staying with friends or being in the military ... i would have my hide gone...if i was living with another roommate that .. well if they had the dominant personality...they would condemn me...for not doing what im sup-post to be doing....i always screw up on things, forgot to do them, lack common sense and people ridcule me behind my back....like say its ok...and then walk in the other room and say he's an idiot...
just stuff like that...this post won't have any meaning 10 years from now....i have to learn to just ... do what im suppost to do...marines and army...omgod they would kill me...those drill sargents...i wouldnt have any hide left...
anyways...well hopefully i won't do this again but i say that everytime i don't do something and then do it again.....wonderful...
anyways thanks for reading.....hopefully you get an idea of who i really am...lol
r
Posted by gadchik on January 24, 2013, at 16:57:36
In reply to forgetting to do the simple things, posted by rjlockhart37 on January 23, 2013, at 20:47:34
>>people ridcule me behind my back....like say its ok...and then walk in the other room and say he's an idiot...
What if you freed your mind of the worry of "what others think"? Just dont bother with it anymore. And write down things you need to get done, then do them. You will feel better about the day.
Posted by rjlockhart37 on January 24, 2013, at 19:30:50
In reply to Re: forgetting to do the simple things, posted by gadchik on January 24, 2013, at 16:57:36
i have let it not bother me....but the rumors amoung people....not just this...ill be totally unaware of the bad stuff saying behind the back and then people start playing the quiet game and show signs of dislike...its like a virus....your not bothered by the virus itself, but the damage it will do is what needs to be worried about. People have talked and said bad things about me alot, even my family...they don't want me around them with their new newphews....you know, i've already said "this is who i am" and i don't regret anything that i do....but the feedback....that it causes is something that causes pain....but all i know is those people have corruption spelled all over them....so i guess i could view them bad....and not hang around them....its just the saying word gets around....when i was in high school this girl got the entire high school in thinking i was gay....the WHOLE high school, maybe not everyone...but most of the people....that was a nightmare. So i still do have to watch out for negative feedback that is going to be detrimental, even though this case is not a big issue at all....its the ripple effect that bothers me.
thanks...
r
Posted by Phil on January 28, 2013, at 19:14:59
In reply to Re: forgetting to do the simple things » gadchik, posted by rjlockhart37 on January 24, 2013, at 19:30:50
Study Buddhism a bit. People, if they are really talking behind your back, are little people with little minds. I think you need a lot of therapy to sort all of these issues out.
That's not bad, I've done and continue to do therapy.
Let it go RJ, you don't realize how good you are.
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