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Posted by TexasChic on December 12, 2009, at 11:22:12
I just need to rant to get this out of my system, and I don't feel comfortable sharing these insecurities on Facebook.
I have been working part time and collecting unemployment for several months now, and UE has been absolutely essential to my getting by. My next time to apply for my payment is tomorrow, and I went online to check into it, and it said my claim had expired! I still have benefits left, but I have to go through the application process all over again, which of course takes forever! I went ahead and filled everything out, but I'm afraid I may have done it wrong, which will cause it to take even longer. (It was difficult to know if they wanted the info from my last full time job or my current part time one, and of course there's no one to ask on the weekend). So to make a long story short, the money I was relying on to buy my nephew xmas gifts isn't going to be there! And I usually buy a substantial part because his parent don't have much money. And to top it all off, I don't know if things will be straightened out in time for next month's rent and bills either!
On the good side, I have an interview Monday with a high profile shipping company. Its kind of a shift leader position in one of their retail stores, and it would probably pay about what I'm making now with UE, so I wouldn't have to depend on that anymore. Plus they have good benefits and promote from within. I also have another interview with another store in the same company on Wed, but its for an entry level customer service job which would pay about what I'm making now at my part time job, but it would be full time with benefits, and I would still have the benefit that they promote from within. So it would be a good foot in the door, but I would still need the supplement from UE to get by.
Sooooo, I'm just freaking out because I don't know what's going to happen, and I'm so sick of not having a job or being able to support myself, and never having any money!!!! To top it all off my cold weather suit is too tight on me because I'm a fat cow so I have to go buy a new one this weekend. I'm going to Goodwill first, then try Ross or something if they don't have anything. I could just wear some nice clothes, which I'm considering, but if ever I needed to make a good impression on an interview, its now, and I would really like to have a suit! But I hate to spend any of my meager funds since I need to save every cent just in case I need it for rent at the end of the month.
So !@#$% !!!! That's me screaming and cursing in frustration! I know things will probably eventually work themselves out - at least, they usually do. But I hate the uncertainty of my current situation! Thanks for listening to me rant.
-T
Posted by Phillipa on December 12, 2009, at 13:06:43
In reply to Feeling kind of freaked..., posted by TexasChic on December 12, 2009, at 11:22:12
Hey T I do know the feeling trying to figure out where and how to get my Grandson something for Christmas also. No money here either. Seriously I think the info would be for the job your're currently in is that bad or good? Love Phillipa
Posted by Deneb on December 12, 2009, at 15:28:14
In reply to Feeling kind of freaked..., posted by TexasChic on December 12, 2009, at 11:22:12
Hey TexasChic,
It sounds really stressful to suddenly have your unemployment cut off. I'm on unemployment right now too, but I only have a few weeks left. I live with my parents though and I know they will help me out so my situation isn't as stressful as yours.
I hope the jobs fall through for you and you can find some good winter clothes at the GoodWill store.
Posted by Phillipa on December 12, 2009, at 21:31:25
In reply to Re: Feeling kind of freaked... » TexasChic, posted by Deneb on December 12, 2009, at 15:28:14
Deneb did you mean to word it that way? Phillipa
Posted by Deneb on December 12, 2009, at 21:41:33
In reply to Re: Feeling kind of freaked... » Deneb, posted by Phillipa on December 12, 2009, at 21:31:25
Oops, I just realized I've been using falls through wrong. LOL Wow, just searched for it's meaning and it means the complete opposite of what I thought it meant!
Anyways, what I meant to say is that I hope you get the jobs!
Posted by Deneb on December 12, 2009, at 21:50:05
In reply to Re: Feeling kind of freaked..., posted by Deneb on December 12, 2009, at 21:41:33
Wow, I feel really stupid. I wonder how many times I've made that mistake? Gosh, it must have made people confused!
This is what I get for not talking much.
Posted by Phillipa on December 12, 2009, at 22:03:31
In reply to Re: Feeling kind of freaked..., posted by Deneb on December 12, 2009, at 21:50:05
But you fixed it and that's what counts Phillipa
Posted by Deneb on December 12, 2009, at 22:10:37
In reply to Re: Feeling kind of freaked... » Deneb, posted by Phillipa on December 12, 2009, at 22:03:31
What do you mean Phillipa? I meant no ill will at any time. It was an honest to goodness stupid mistake and I would hope anyone who knows me would assume I meant the complete opposite of what I wrote.
Are you saying that if I hadn't fixed it people would have assumed I wanted TexasChic to NOT get the jobs??
People who know me would know it was a mistake for sure.
It makes me feel kind of bad to think people would think the worse of me.
Is that what you mean Phillipa?
Posted by Deneb on December 12, 2009, at 22:13:10
In reply to Re: Feeling kind of freaked..., posted by Deneb on December 12, 2009, at 22:10:37
Sorry to Hijack your thread TexasChic. Let's get back on topic.
Posted by Phillipa on December 12, 2009, at 22:13:24
In reply to Re: Feeling kind of freaked..., posted by Deneb on December 12, 2009, at 22:10:37
Deneb of course not. Why would you think that? Phillipa
Posted by olivepit on December 12, 2009, at 22:30:51
In reply to Re: Feeling kind of freaked..., posted by Deneb on December 12, 2009, at 22:10:37
> Are you saying that if I hadn't fixed it people would have assumed I wanted TexasChic to NOT get the jobs??
>
It was very clear what you meant Deneb. I dont think anyone would ever question that coming from you> People who know me would know it was a mistake for sure.
>Absolutely, I think Phillipa was just clarifying.
Posted by TexasChic on December 13, 2009, at 10:40:50
In reply to Re: Feeling kind of freaked... » Deneb, posted by olivepit on December 12, 2009, at 22:30:51
First off, Deneb, it was obvious what you meant even if your wording was slightly off. You just confused the term 'comes through' with 'falls through'. And I don't think Phillipa meant you seriously screwed up, I think she was actually trying to make you feel better by saying, no big deal, you fixed it. If you've used the term in the past, I'm sure the context made it apparent what you were implying. So don't worry about it, okay?
Secondly, thanks you guys! I appreciate all the support and well wishes. Although I'm still worried, I feel better about things today. Sometimes I freak out about something and the anxiety just builds and builds, and it helps to get it all out here on babble. And everyone is always so supportive, it just helps me get a grip on that runaway anxiety. So thanks for being there pb friends!
-T
Posted by inanimate peanut on December 13, 2009, at 12:15:04
In reply to Feeling kind of freaked..., posted by TexasChic on December 12, 2009, at 11:22:12
I think the uncertainty is the hardest part to deal with sometimes. I hope everything sorts itself out for you soon!
Posted by Kath on December 13, 2009, at 19:02:51
In reply to Re: Feeling kind of freaked..., posted by TexasChic on December 13, 2009, at 10:40:50
You're in my thoughts TC.
Fingers, toes, eyes crossed.
xo Kath
Posted by Phillipa on December 13, 2009, at 19:16:16
In reply to Re: Feeling kind of freaked... » Deneb, posted by olivepit on December 12, 2009, at 22:30:51
Thanks for clarifying that Olive Pit. Deneb that's exactly right. And T you will get the job I know you will. Positive vibes on the way. Love Phillipa
Posted by TexasChic on December 13, 2009, at 20:39:34
In reply to Re: Feeling kind of freaked... » olivepit, posted by Phillipa on December 13, 2009, at 19:16:16
Thanks you guys! I ended up not getting a new suit. I went to Goodwill and could only find short sleeve suits, and with it being so warm outside I realized it was silly to think I couldn't wear the short sleeved suit I already have. And even if it gets cold again, I'll be wearing a coat when I'm outside. I will have to replace it soon though, its getting kind of ratty from wearing it so much!
I talked to my Mom, and although she has little money, she is going to contribute some to my nephew's xmas fund, and I figured out I can spend a little and still pay my rent and electric bill with what I have coming in from my part time job. So if the UE doesn't come through for a while, I'll be able to cover the two most important bills. Other than that, I'm just going to try not to worry about it.
I'm getting myself psyched up for the interview now and going over potential questions. I really hope I get this one! Its not my dream job or anything, but it sure would improve my current situation, and could lead to something better. Wish me luck!
-T
Posted by Phillipa on December 13, 2009, at 20:54:52
In reply to Re: Feeling kind of freaked..., posted by TexasChic on December 13, 2009, at 20:39:34
T seriously good luck. It got hot there again thought it was freezing. The weather there changes faster than here. Just be you and look like you. Now how could they not hire you? Cudos to you Mom too. What a relief that must be.
Posted by janejane on December 14, 2009, at 7:47:35
In reply to Feeling kind of freaked..., posted by TexasChic on December 12, 2009, at 11:22:12
I think a lot of us are dealing with financial insecurity right now, myself included. It's really tough out there. I hope your UE application goes through without a hitch. (Maybe you can call them today too.)
Good luck with your interviews! They both sound like good opportunities.
Posted by Phillipa on December 14, 2009, at 18:48:40
In reply to Re: Feeling kind of freaked..., posted by janejane on December 14, 2009, at 7:47:35
T well how did they go????? Love Phillipa
Posted by TexasChic on December 14, 2009, at 19:45:36
In reply to Re: Feeling kind of freaked..., posted by Phillipa on December 14, 2009, at 18:48:40
The interview went really well! For once I was able to rattle off the answers to those silly typical interview questions and actually sound like an intelligent human being! (I think I can attribute that to the Ritalin). I really don't have the experience needed for the management part of the job, which the manager did comment on, but he said he's considering me anyway. He also said my skill set would definitely be an asset to the company, and he thought he could find a place for me even if he doesn't choose me for this particular position. I told him about the other interview on Wed, and he said he used to work for that manager. He said he would talk to him after my interview and get his opinion on the matter. I think I might actually get a job out of this situation! It may not be 'exactly' what I want to do, but sometimes you have to change your expectations if you want to get out of a rut. Did that make sense? Ugh, I'm tired now. Thanks everyone for the support! I'll keep you updated!
-T
Posted by TexasChic on December 14, 2009, at 19:55:15
In reply to Re: Feeling kind of freaked..., posted by TexasChic on December 14, 2009, at 19:45:36
I talked to UE and it turns out I did fill everything out right, but it could take 4-6 weeks to process the new claim! Sheesh! I mean, they'll give me back pay if it comes through, but what about the next month and a half? I'm just going to have to scrounge and try to make it through. I'm not going to worry about it anymore though. Whatever happens, happen.
-T
Posted by TexasChic on December 14, 2009, at 19:59:17
In reply to Re: Feeling kind of freaked... » TexasChic, posted by Phillipa on December 13, 2009, at 20:54:52
> T seriously good luck. It got hot there again thought it was freezing. The weather there changes faster than here.
It was freezing! It even snowed! But yesterday and today I've had to turn on the air conditioner. That's Texas for you!
> Just be you and look like you. Now how could they not hire you? Cudos to you Mom too. What a relief that must be.
Thanks Phillipa!
-T
Posted by Phillipa on December 14, 2009, at 21:36:05
In reply to Re: Feeling kind of freaked... » Phillipa, posted by TexasChic on December 14, 2009, at 19:59:17
Congrats on the interview your attitude is great. I didn't know you were now on add med? Thought prozac doesn't matter. You feel good. Love Phillipa
Posted by janejane on December 15, 2009, at 6:34:33
In reply to Re: Feeling kind of freaked..., posted by TexasChic on December 14, 2009, at 19:45:36
Posted by Dinah on December 16, 2009, at 11:44:18
In reply to Re: Feeling kind of freaked..., posted by TexasChic on December 14, 2009, at 19:45:36
:)
I've got my fingers crossed.
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