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Posted by lynn971 on August 19, 2006, at 16:35:18
In reply to Am I A Big Prude?, posted by Phillipa on August 19, 2006, at 15:36:57
You are NOT a prude. I would not want someone around who is always flinging off their shirt.
luv ya,
lynn
Posted by crazy teresa on August 19, 2006, at 17:18:57
In reply to Am I A Big Prude?, posted by Phillipa on August 19, 2006, at 15:36:57
Absolutely not! Would your hubby like a male stripper undressing just for you???
Posted by wildcardII on August 19, 2006, at 21:33:06
In reply to Re: Am I A Big Prude? » Phillipa, posted by crazy teresa on August 19, 2006, at 17:18:57
Posted by Phillipa on August 19, 2006, at 21:42:10
In reply to Re: Am I A Big Prude? » Phillipa, posted by crazy teresa on August 19, 2006, at 17:18:57
Teresa don't think he'd care. But herbs for four hour ldsdjfdfj? Love Phillipa
Posted by Phillipa on August 19, 2006, at 21:45:21
In reply to sounds like someone w/ low self esteem (nm), posted by wildcardII on August 19, 2006, at 21:33:06
Well tomorrow I may get to experience her low self-esteem. I mean in front of thousands of people your husband likes you taking off your clothes. Bet they swing too. Love Phillipa ps back and forth , back and forth.
Posted by justy0urlaugh on August 20, 2006, at 10:56:49
In reply to Re: sounds like someone w/ low self esteem » wildcardII, posted by Phillipa on August 19, 2006, at 21:45:21
many could view her body and profession as "art".
her esteem may be wonderful. her breasts very well may be spectacular!
does not make one a prude to disaprove..
Posted by wildcardII on August 20, 2006, at 11:53:21
In reply to Re: sounds like someone w/ low self esteem, posted by justy0urlaugh on August 20, 2006, at 10:56:49
but to be married and feel the need to show her breasts to men in general seems attention seeking which could be low self esteem. just my thought on it...
Posted by llrrrpp on August 20, 2006, at 17:55:44
In reply to Re: sounds like someone w/ low self esteem » justy0urlaugh, posted by wildcardII on August 20, 2006, at 11:53:21
Well, she may have high self-esteem, but the 'self' is located entirely in her breasts.
I guess it's high breast-esteem.
Breast-esteem is nice. So is brains-esteem, and ability-esteem, and lifelongexperience-esteem. The more esteems, the merrier.
-ll
Posted by Jost on August 20, 2006, at 18:52:38
In reply to Re: sounds like someone w/ low self esteem » wildcardII, posted by llrrrpp on August 20, 2006, at 17:55:44
Breast-esteem seems like it's mostly in the eyes of the beholders. Esp those w/o it).
Jost
Posted by justy0urlaugh on August 20, 2006, at 19:06:39
In reply to Re: sounds like someone w/ low self esteem » llrrrpp, posted by Jost on August 20, 2006, at 18:52:38
Posted by Kath on August 20, 2006, at 19:50:51
In reply to Am I A Big Prude?, posted by Phillipa on August 19, 2006, at 15:36:57
Hi Phillipa hunny,
I don't think you are a prude.
The behaviour/bragging etc sounds pretty adolescent to me.
I send you hugs!!!
Kath
PS - You are NOT a prude. People have different values & comfort levels about this type of stuff. I think I'd feel like you do.
Posted by Phillipa on August 20, 2006, at 19:58:16
In reply to Re: Am I A Big Prude? » Phillipa, posted by Kath on August 20, 2006, at 19:50:51
Thanks guys so it's not just me? I thought I'd gone to bed and the world had changed when I woke up. And then there was the beautiful woman in the grocery store who's shirt said I like to swing. Guess she means a swing set right? Love Phillipa
Posted by Kath on August 20, 2006, at 20:14:38
In reply to Re: Am I A Big Prude?, posted by Phillipa on August 20, 2006, at 19:58:16
said I like to swing. Guess she means a swing set right?
---------I think she's undoubtedly into Square-dancing - ya know -
Swing yer pardner alamenny left !!! LOL
Jeez Louise!!
:-) Kath
Posted by TexasChic on August 20, 2006, at 20:33:45
In reply to Re: Am I A Big Prude?, posted by Phillipa on August 20, 2006, at 19:58:16
You know, sometimes you can be surrounded by people who insist on something and it makes you question yourself. Lets say for instance, you go to a party and everyone there says, 'The sky is green'. When you say, "Um, it was blue last time I looked", they all laugh at you. You're made fun of the rest of the night. The next day everyone you talk to says, "Yep, I agree, the sky is green". Getting desperate you poll all the people in your neighborhood and they all concure the sky is green. You begin to think, "Well, it must be true. How could my opinion outweigh that of all these other people?"
Then the national news finds out about it, and broadcasts it all over the country. Millions and millions of people laugh at the stupidity of these people who think the sky is green, and you realize you let them change your mind even when the evidence was right in front of you.
What I'm trying to say is, its easy to feel like you must be wrong when everyone around you believes something and acts like you're stupid to believe otherwise. But there's a WHOLE lot of people in this big world. Just because you're out numbered doesn't mean you're wrong, maybe just with the wrong crowd.
-T
Posted by Phillipa on August 20, 2006, at 20:51:35
In reply to Re: Am I A Big Prude? » Phillipa, posted by TexasChic on August 20, 2006, at 20:33:45
No T I'd never hang out with them. My husband is painting their fancy expensive offshore powerboats. The owner of the boats wife and the people they hang with are the ones. Money does wierd things to people I think. Love Phillipa
Posted by TexasChic on August 20, 2006, at 21:12:54
In reply to Re: Am I A Big Prude? » TexasChic, posted by Phillipa on August 20, 2006, at 20:51:35
My story was supposed to be kind of metaphorical. I was trying to say that just because it seems like EVERYONE around you believes a certain thing, doesn't mean they're in the majority, or that you're wrong to feel the way you do. So you shouldn't feel like a prude. You're beliefs are valid and as important as anyone elses.
-T
Posted by wildcardII on August 20, 2006, at 21:14:51
In reply to Re: sounds like someone w/ low self esteem » wildcardII, posted by llrrrpp on August 20, 2006, at 17:55:44
self esteem to me. i'm big chested but out of respect for myself would not want to show anyone and everyone my chest. everyone is different but that's a personal choice, just not mine (unless i've had one too many :-))
Posted by Phillipa on August 20, 2006, at 21:36:51
In reply to still sounds like attention seeking low, posted by wildcardII on August 20, 2006, at 21:14:51
Well you say you don't drink so it shouldn't be a problem unless a helicopter flies over your house and you're on the trampoline!!!!!!Love Phillipa
Posted by wildcardII on August 21, 2006, at 0:49:06
In reply to Re: still sounds like attention seeking low » wildcardII, posted by Phillipa on August 20, 2006, at 21:36:51
Posted by justy0urlaugh on August 22, 2006, at 9:53:19
In reply to Re: still sounds like attention seeking low » wildcardII, posted by Phillipa on August 20, 2006, at 21:36:51
you post alot of personal information about yourself and others. please be careful. i would hate to have another person hurt.
you are not a prude. one should not need to put down another in order to reassure.
Posted by wildcardII on August 22, 2006, at 9:58:23
In reply to Re: still sounds like attention seeking low, posted by justy0urlaugh on August 22, 2006, at 9:53:19
did i offend you? if so i'm sorry.
Posted by Phillipa on August 22, 2006, at 10:08:38
In reply to Re: still sounds like attention seeking low, posted by justy0urlaugh on August 22, 2006, at 9:53:19
You're right. Thanks for not thinking I'm a prude.Love Phillipa
Posted by justy0urlaugh on August 22, 2006, at 10:14:32
In reply to ya lost me??? » justy0urlaugh, posted by wildcardII on August 22, 2006, at 9:58:23
heavens no..
personal information was posted about me..i was crushed to see it taking out of context. many many comments attacked my moral foundation.
lose lips sank my world.
what if this woman was to read this post about her?
i wanted to remind that this is a "public" place.
Posted by wildcardII on August 22, 2006, at 10:39:28
In reply to Re: ya lost me???, posted by justy0urlaugh on August 22, 2006, at 10:14:32
Posted by Phillipa on August 22, 2006, at 11:32:46
In reply to Re: ya lost me???, posted by justy0urlaugh on August 22, 2006, at 10:14:32
Thanks JYL I'm glad you reminded me. Love Phillipa
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