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Posted by justyourlaugh on March 14, 2004, at 13:25:28
i woke this morning knowing what i had to do...
i couldnt live like this anymore..
i kicked c out this morning...and he went..
packed up all his clothes,computer stuff, shoes..
and walked out..
i will not be abused today...
today i will begin to heal...heal myself,,heal the kids..
i have to learn to live with respect for mylife..
j
Posted by Susan J on March 14, 2004, at 13:30:10
In reply to time to feel better..., posted by justyourlaugh on March 14, 2004, at 13:25:28
JYL,
Sounds like you are respecting yourself just fine. :-) Also sounds like quite an upheaval. Let us know if you need anything/wanna talk.
Keep nurturing yourself...you deserve it.
Susan
Posted by pegasus on March 14, 2004, at 14:19:30
In reply to time to feel better..., posted by justyourlaugh on March 14, 2004, at 13:25:28
Wow! Big changes! Good for you. Please let us know how it goes, and ask for any help you need. This might be a tough time for you, so remember you have lots of support here.
- p
Posted by octopusprime on March 14, 2004, at 15:01:10
In reply to time to feel better..., posted by justyourlaugh on March 14, 2004, at 13:25:28
justyourlaugh:
good for you! i hope you keep taking positive steps to heal.
taking the first step is so empowering.
please keep posting here. change is so hard. we are all rooting for you through your ups and downs (and there will be many in the weeks and months to come!)
please get all the support you need ((jyl))
you're strong and you can make it through!
Posted by fallsfall on March 14, 2004, at 16:38:46
In reply to time to feel better..., posted by justyourlaugh on March 14, 2004, at 13:25:28
I am SOOOOOOO proud of you JYL!
And I'm happy beyond belief that you will not be abused today. You deserve that every day.
Even when you are the one making the decision (and even when you are very sure that you are right) these separations can be very painful. I did mine 5 years ago (we were married for 19 years). Please stay in touch and let us cheer you on.
c. wasn't understanding you, and wasn't being kind to you. Your decision sounds very reasonable to me.
(((((JYL)))))
May happier days be ahead for you.
Posted by All Done on March 15, 2004, at 9:47:16
In reply to time to feel better..., posted by justyourlaugh on March 14, 2004, at 13:25:28
(((((JYL))))),
You did a very brave thing for you and your kids, jyl. It was a difficult and painful decision for you to make and I'm proud of you for making it. You might have a rough road ahead, but having been on it myself, I can assure you, it will get better. You did the right thing.
We are here for you whenever you need us.
Keep taking care of yourself.
All Done
Posted by Dinah on March 15, 2004, at 18:24:59
In reply to time to feel better..., posted by justyourlaugh on March 14, 2004, at 13:25:28
You deserve nothing but the best JYL. But take care of yourself in this time of transition.
((((JYL))))
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