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Posted by ELA on March 10, 2002, at 11:11:42
Hey everyone,
Thought I'd check in and let people know about my news - have made the break, am leaving home in 3 weeks to start a new job 200 odd miles away from home! Am going to be a nanny for a family just outside of bristol which is 3 hours away from london, really looking forward to it.
Am feeling pretty good at the mo, thinkg going ok. Therapy is getting a bit boring - just going over the same old things over and over again but I guess they know what they're doing right?!
What do you all reck then? Drastic action or well deserved and needed break/fresh start???
Take care.
Emma.
Emma.
Posted by pedr on March 11, 2002, at 12:21:43
In reply to pastures new, posted by ELA on March 10, 2002, at 11:11:42
> What do you all reck then? Drastic action or well deserved and needed break/fresh start???
Dunno but good luck anyway 8-]. I'd be interested to hear what you think of Bristol as it's somewhere I might move to if/when I get my shit together.
pete.
Posted by IsoM on March 12, 2002, at 1:35:23
In reply to pastures new, posted by ELA on March 10, 2002, at 11:11:42
I'd need to know you face-to-face & better to let you know whether it's a good move for you or not, Emma. Hope you do enjoy it. It's not like all your bridges are burned behind you, or that you couldn't choose another path if it doesn't work out.
Maybe being a nanny for a while without academic pressure may give you a chance to gather yourself together to know what you'd like to pursue in the future. Keep us updated on your progress, please. Do you enjoy children? If you do, you may have some very happy times ahead. How old are the children anyway? Kids, when sweet, can shower you with unconditional love. My landlady used to be a nanny a few years back & the children still love her & visit regularly.
Posted by fi on March 12, 2002, at 8:55:37
In reply to pastures new, posted by ELA on March 10, 2002, at 11:11:42
Thanks for update- had been thinking about you.
As said by others, we cant tell how it will go but wish you well! I believe its meant to be important to make sure you have a proper contract with the parents you are working for, but otherwise it will have a lot to do with how you get on with them. **If** it doesnt go well, dont feel you have to stay there to the bitter end- come back, and stay with friends while you look for somewhere else?
Have you talked with your therapist re the move? There's a strong chance they will suggest you organise some therapy or counselling when you get there, at least for a while (yes it can be v boring!) Can you stay in touch with your friends eg visits/emails...?
Loads of cheers that you are escaping your parents and the pressures of that and college. And working with children will be relevant for the latter.
I seem to be in bossy phase- sorry!
Hope you have internet access in Bristol and can let us know how you get on.
Lots of luck!
Fi
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