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Posted by Gabbee on June 1, 2008, at 15:43:36
In reply to Re: Slinky/Dreamer is gone, posted by Phillipa on June 1, 2008, at 12:44:11
This is the grief board phillipa, not E.T.
I am appalled? Angry? speechless? feeling things I can't describe? after
reading what you've posted here.
Slinky would have been kinder about it.
I know I should ignore but I can't.
Posted by Gabbee on June 1, 2008, at 15:50:23
In reply to Re: Slinky/Dreamer is gone, posted by AbbieNormal on June 1, 2008, at 8:44:28
little faerie duster
exactly,
Posted by AbbieNormal on June 1, 2008, at 19:07:04
In reply to Thanks for that » AbbieNormal, posted by Gabbee on June 1, 2008, at 15:50:23
the faerie dusteron a sad day,
when it was may,
a bright sprite
gave up her fight.could you all promise that this will be the last one?
Abbie
Posted by Phillipa on June 1, 2008, at 19:27:25
In reply to Re: Slinky/Dreamer is gone, posted by Phillipa on June 1, 2008, at 12:44:11
Meant responses on social what is ET? Phillipa. Sorry I offended you no intention to . I did write to the boyfriend.
Posted by Gabbee on June 1, 2008, at 21:52:34
In reply to Re: Slinky/Dreamer is gone » Phillipa, posted by Phillipa on June 1, 2008, at 19:27:25
> Meant responses on social what is ET? Phillipa.
Entertainment tonight
This didn't happen to make observers lives more interesting.
I did write to the boyfriend.I don't recall anyone asking.
Sorry, babblers I know I am perpetuating.
Will stop.
I'm disgusted, and in disbelief.
And sickened
Posted by Gabbee on June 1, 2008, at 21:53:48
In reply to (((((( Sad Babblers )))))), posted by AbbieNormal on June 1, 2008, at 19:07:04
Should have read this first.
So sorry.
Yes lst one.
Posted by Phillipa on June 1, 2008, at 23:30:02
In reply to Re: Slinky/Dreamer is gone » Phillipa, posted by Gabbee on June 1, 2008, at 21:52:34
Horrible what happened. Seemed like a lovely girl. Phillipa
Posted by AbbieNormal on June 2, 2008, at 17:55:27
In reply to Re: (((((( Sad Babblers )))))) » AbbieNormal, posted by Gabbee on June 1, 2008, at 21:53:48
Just to clarify
Please oh please...
Can't this be the last suicide Babble ever has to feel?
Abbie
Posted by zenhussy on June 2, 2008, at 18:48:24
In reply to (((((( Sad Babblers )))))), posted by AbbieNormal on June 2, 2008, at 17:55:27
please oh please oh freakin please let it be the last.
please let our voices be heard about scary/deadly side effects and less than adequate treatment in our countries (usa and uk). each loss is heartbreaking in how easily it could be *any* of us at one time or another.
two of those who have suicided helped through our darkest hours....why didn't they pull through too? = ( there are no answers to that question.
please fight on for better treatment, better meds, better everything as these diseases have robbed all of us out of so much life has to offer....we all deserve better. we all deserve better than adequate treatment. these names of those who've left us are imprinted on the heart and it stirs up rightous indignation about treatment options and why in blazes there isn't more outrage about lack of effective treatment for more of us?!
yes AbbieNormal please oh please let this be the last here in this community (and let's work for global awareness of this issue as well so as not to lose another soul to mental illness/disease/disorder)
((AbNorm)) & ((all of us who've felt loss))
Posted by zenhussy on June 2, 2008, at 21:02:05
In reply to Slinky/Dreamer is gone, posted by bobby on May 31, 2008, at 17:25:00
Posted by ClearSkies on June 2, 2008, at 21:15:37
In reply to Re: (((((( Sad Babblers )))))) » AbbieNormal, posted by zenhussy on June 2, 2008, at 18:48:24
I am torn between sadness and outrage and guilt for being torn. No one should be torn from us, not another single person.
ClearSkies
Posted by Poet on June 2, 2008, at 21:19:13
In reply to Slinky/Dreamer is gone, posted by bobby on May 31, 2008, at 17:25:00
I will always remember her charming posts to "Bobbykins." Slinky was a true wit and muse and I hope she has found peace from the demons that haunted her.
Rest in Peace "Slinkykins."
Poet
Posted by karen_kay on June 3, 2008, at 20:18:46
In reply to Slinky/Dreamer is gone, posted by bobby on May 31, 2008, at 17:25:00
this sucks.
i'm trying to write something, but i can't right now. it doesn't seem possible right now, to write anythig fitting of her.
i'll think of something in a few days. but i do know how very in love with me she was. and how dearly missed she'll be.
i specifically bought mango juice for my duckie a while back, just so he could taste mangoes. he loved them. thanks slinky doll. you're something.
Posted by calamityjane on June 5, 2008, at 14:14:51
In reply to Slinky/Dreamer is gone, posted by bobby on May 31, 2008, at 17:25:00
What terrible, terrible news.
Posted by Tabitha on June 5, 2008, at 22:36:13
Have barely taken it in. All I can think is "it only takes one sad moment". I hate suicide. Sounds trite, but how awful that people are so fragile. I suppose they can also just be hit by a bus, but I hate suicide in particular. It seems like a victory of hopelessness. She had hope lately, seemed happy to be dating.
Such a cruel contrast, the person we see is so charming, so lovable, so worthy of happiness. But we know she suffered with the depression, anxiety, whatever were her personal symptoms. The mind turns on itself. Defective brain, I suppose. Cruel reality.
I'm babbling. I just feel sad. May she rest.
Posted by Dr. Bob on June 10, 2008, at 2:29:30
In reply to Re: Slinky/Dreamer is gone » Phillipa, posted by Gabbee on June 1, 2008, at 21:52:34
> I'm disgusted, and in disbelief.
> And sickenedPlease be sensitive to the feelings of others even if this is a difficult time for you. A supportive environment is especially valuable when a community is mourning a loss.
But please don't take this personally, this doesn't mean I don't like you or think you're a bad person.
For more information about posting policies, please see the FAQ:
http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/faq.html#civil
http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/faq.html#enforceFollow-ups regarding these issues should be redirected to Psycho-Babble Administration. They, as well as replies to the above posts, should of course themselves be civil.
Thanks,
Bob
Posted by Gabbee on June 11, 2008, at 21:19:47
In reply to Re: please be sensitive » Gabbee, posted by Dr. Bob on June 10, 2008, at 2:29:30
or overgeneralize Dr. Bob.
I am sensitive to the feelings of others.. Perhaps you didn't think I was in this particular
post, hardly indicitive of my personality.
There are many ways to be insensitive.
Posted by AbbieNormal on June 11, 2008, at 21:29:09
In reply to Re: please don't jump to conclusions » Dr. Bob, posted by Gabbee on June 11, 2008, at 21:19:47
The Gabbette is very sensitive. Bob must be confusing you with someone else.
Abbie
Posted by Gabbee on June 12, 2008, at 14:05:40
In reply to Re: please don't jump to conclusions » Gabbee, posted by AbbieNormal on June 11, 2008, at 21:29:09
Posted by Jay_Bravest_Face on June 15, 2008, at 1:16:31
In reply to Re: (((((( Sad Babblers )))))), posted by ClearSkies on June 2, 2008, at 21:15:37
> I am torn between sadness and outrage and guilt for being torn. No one should be torn from us, not another single person.
>
> ClearSkiesOkay...maybe this belongs on the religion board, but I don't think so. This is theology mixed with the existential grief. Please don't get mad at me, or think I am putting anyone down or forcing my opinion on others. I've converted to Christianity not to 'belong' to anything, not to preach, but as part of the existential burning light. My favourite version of the Scriptures is Eugene Peterson's everyday language translation.
The Bible has many passages of times when people do get very angry at God (or whom you worship), as I struggle too.
Psalm 44 is a good example of that anger and struggle I get from many of you on here, in your grief and despair:23-26 Get up, God! Are you going to sleep all day?
Wake up! Don't you care what happens to us?
Why do you bury your face in the pillow?
Why pretend things are just fine with us?
And here we areflat on our faces in the dirt,
held down with a boot on our necks.
Get up and come to our rescue.
If you love us so much, Help us!
--
9-12 But now you've walked off and left us,
you've disgraced us and won't fight for us.
You made us turn tail and run;
those who hate us have cleaned us out.
You delivered us as sheep to the butcher,
you scattered us to the four winds.
You sold your people at a discount
you made nothing on the sale.
=Jay
Posted by ClearSkies on June 15, 2008, at 13:54:44
In reply to Re: (((((( Sad Babblers ))))))--__----For Everyone, posted by Jay_Bravest_Face on June 15, 2008, at 1:16:31
I'm not actually angry at God, more at my own inability to reach out in any tangible way to someone who seems to have been suffering. I'm angry at my own futility. I don't think that God was paying much attention.
cynic me
CS
Posted by jai narayan on July 15, 2008, at 22:59:37
In reply to Slinky/Dreamer is gone, posted by bobby on May 31, 2008, at 17:25:00
it's been 24 hours for me now and I am deeply sad.
Jai
Posted by jai narayan on July 15, 2008, at 23:16:07
In reply to Re: Slinky/Dreamer is gone, posted by jai narayan on July 15, 2008, at 22:59:37
I really don't want this to be true. Is there anyway???
I'm in denial.
so stage specific. really quite predictable. god, slinky, please be kidding. when will I accept this?
not ever?
slinky I can't stand this.
Jai
Posted by jai narayan on August 3, 2008, at 15:26:22
In reply to Re: Slinky/Dreamer is gone, posted by jai narayan on July 15, 2008, at 23:16:07
> I really don't want this to be true. Is there anyway???
> I'm in denial.
> so stage specific. really quite predictable. god, slinky, please be kidding. when will I accept this?
> not ever?
> slinky I can't stand this.
> Jai
like a trapped butterfly I bounce against the walls of reality.
why can I still feel her?oh I know, just let it go...
how do I do that?
the walls of reality fall away and we are all one?
well I guess time will dull my reaction.
Posted by jai narayan on May 11, 2009, at 18:54:07
In reply to Re: Slinky/Dreamer is gone, posted by jai narayan on August 3, 2008, at 15:26:22
> > I really don't want this to be true. Is there anyway???
> > I'm in denial.
> > so stage specific. really quite predictable. god, slinky, please be kidding. when will I accept this?
> > not ever?
> > slinky I can't stand this.
> > Jai
> like a trapped butterfly I bounce against the walls of reality.
> why can I still feel her?
>
> oh I know, just let it go...
> how do I do that?
> the walls of reality fall away and we are all one?
> well I guess time will dull my reaction.
>
>
still raw- ah but less raw, you will never ever be dead to me. Slinky, I luv you rabbit.
Jai
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