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Posted by muffled on April 9, 2008, at 15:11:29
((((((((((babblers))))))))))))
((((((((bob even))))))))
Posted by muffled on April 9, 2008, at 15:14:08
In reply to Everybody be Ok, OK? Too much hurts., posted by muffled on April 9, 2008, at 15:11:29
see bobs picture has a nice face, it'll be Ok.
i go now.
see I learn.
I go now.
s'ok, gonna be OK.
OK?
Posted by gardenergirl on April 9, 2008, at 15:38:27
In reply to Re: Everybody be Ok, OK? Too much hurts., posted by muffled on April 9, 2008, at 15:14:08
Hi sweetie. I pruned my lavender today, a therapeutic task in multiple ways. Imagine me sending you some sprigs. When you open the package, a lovely, soothing scent wafts out.
Sweets for the sweet.
gg
Posted by star008 on April 9, 2008, at 16:13:13
In reply to Everybody be Ok, OK? Too much hurts., posted by muffled on April 9, 2008, at 15:11:29
its okay muffled.. its all okay,,, we all do stuff that other people don't like sometimes.. look at some of the conflicts I have had.. Its all gonna be okay.. don't fret anymore..
Posted by 10derHeart on April 9, 2008, at 18:28:26
In reply to Re: Everybody be Ok, OK? Too much hurts. » muffled, posted by star008 on April 9, 2008, at 16:13:13
Muffy,
It is definitely okay and so are you.
You are inspirational, even though I know you have a difficult time seeing that....I happen to know I'm hardly the only one who thinks so :-)
so................
It is all good, after all, a Care Bear - no, -THE Care Bear - says so! ;-)
your friend - 10der
Posted by AbbieNormal on April 9, 2008, at 19:45:14
In reply to Everybody be Ok, OK? Too much hurts., posted by muffled on April 9, 2008, at 15:11:29
Hey, if 99 people love you and 1 doesn't - who the h*ll cares? :-P
Abbie
Posted by muffled on April 9, 2008, at 20:54:13
In reply to (((((((((((((muffled)))))))))))))))) » muffled, posted by gardenergirl on April 9, 2008, at 15:38:27
Thx GG, the lavender was very calming :-) It is a very lovely visual and I thank you for it, I may add it to my aresenal of good things to distract. I really liked it! Thx.
Thx Star hope you doing OK? Know its been tough for you. You can email me bout T if you want. Take care.
HO! 10der! Our self esteem is rising!! THE bear! LOL! :-) Thx for the nice words, you a sweet pie too. I hope your doing OK too with all your doings....hang in there...
Abby, thx for support, mostly I am fine. I know we all got our stuff. I don't think anyone hates me, if they do, I am sad for them. Hate will eat a person up if they let it. I hope ALL will be OK. You included too abby! :-)
Take care and...you GOTTA know wats comming next!!!
"lets keep it administrative here folks!" LOL!!!
Posted by Dinah on April 9, 2008, at 20:59:46
In reply to Everybody be Ok, OK? Too much hurts., posted by muffled on April 9, 2008, at 15:11:29
Ahhhh Muffled.
I haven't read the board today (computer crashed) so I don't know what's going on.
But I do know that any interpersonal relationship carries the risk of hurts. Maybe not even the risk, but the certainty.
That never helps me much in the moment I'm hurting, but it often does help me after I get a chance to step back. I know I risk the hurt because I find the reward worth it.
As you well know, I've always found you one of the big rewards of Babble. If you need to step away, I can understand that. And if you need to talk, I'm often around. Although probably not very much until I reload every program on my computer. :((((
It was really hard for me to accept, and I still don't really in some ways, that not everyone will like me. After all, I try to be thoughtful and how could anyone dislike that? But the fact is that for many reasons, some having to do with me and inadvertent hurts I cause, and some to do with a personality mesh perhaps, and some having nothing whatsoever to do with me, some people are going to dislike me.
I think it's true of everyone. And Muffled, so many people care about you and have such positive feelings toward you, isn't it reasonable to sadly conclude that there will be some balance in the other direction?
Take care of yourself, Muffled. You very much deserve it.
Posted by Dinah on April 9, 2008, at 21:01:00
In reply to Re: (((((((((((((muffled)))))))))))))))), posted by muffled on April 9, 2008, at 20:54:13
I'm sorry for any nonadministrative content.
(((muffled)))
Posted by muffled on April 9, 2008, at 21:11:16
In reply to We cross posted :) » muffled, posted by Dinah on April 9, 2008, at 21:01:00
> I'm sorry for any nonadministrative content.
>
> (((muffled)))Tee hee, sorry dinah!
((dinah))
You said great things as usu :-)
You a wise soul.
:-)
M
Posted by seldomseen on April 10, 2008, at 6:23:20
In reply to Everybody be Ok, OK? Too much hurts., posted by muffled on April 9, 2008, at 15:11:29
Sometimes it helps me when I feel angry and upset, to vent it all in a journal. Then, later I go back to it and ask myself what I was really wanting, but had become embedded under all that hurt.
What do I want people to know? What do I want people to do? What do I really feel about this?
I think a "I feel angry" or "I want people to do this" or "I want people to know" is very effective and more likely to get a positive response.
I feel very triggered by things I perceive as outbursts. My father was the king of the angry outburst followed my profuse apologies. It never made the outburst go away. I never understood how he could give himself permission to do it.
Hope you feel better soon.
Seldom
Posted by AbbieNormal on April 10, 2008, at 6:23:27
In reply to Re: (((((((((((((muffled)))))))))))))))), posted by muffled on April 9, 2008, at 20:54:13
Muffs - I'm fine. Went for long walk and calmed down that mother lion who lives inside. She's very protective. :-)
Ab
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