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Posted by jealibeanz on August 10, 2006, at 23:16:23
In reply to Re: Bipolar? Self diagnosis... » jealibeanz, posted by mayzee on August 10, 2006, at 21:56:02
I'm not really sure a pdoc is an option. I've been only to one, the one my insurance would cover. He was horrible. Made me feel worthless, incompetetent, and completely to blame for any unhappiness in my life. He told me I was perfectly fine and refused to help with any type of medication whatsoever.
So just my own doctor isn't OK? Do they at times treat tx resistent or bipolar patients? I do forget that others can't read my mind or know all my history without me telling them. He actually doesn't know I have recurrent episodes, which is significant. I just never thought to come out and say it because to me it's very apparent.
Posted by Phillipa on August 10, 2006, at 23:32:26
In reply to Re: Bipolar? Self diagnosis..., posted by jealibeanz on August 10, 2006, at 23:16:23
Write down notes so you don't forget anything. And I don't think a regular doc unless they're extremely good knows as much as a pdoc for treating tx resistant depression. But there are a lot of good docs out there. Love Phillipa
Posted by jealibeanz on August 10, 2006, at 23:33:30
In reply to Re: Bipolar? Self diagnosis..., posted by jealibeanz on August 10, 2006, at 17:04:41
That makes sense about OCD/anxiety like manifestation. While I don't think I have clinical OCD, I do get fixated on ideas, especially since this matter is a huge part of my life.
No,thankfully no history of anorexia (how does that translate to being able to get less sleep anyway?), I just happened to respond to one of the posters, and in curiosity followed a few of her posts to the eating board. My issues about weight are totally concerning the abnormal response my body has had to meds, otherwise I completely fine about my body/food when not on the topic of side effects of medication.
Like I said I stopped the Straterra for 5 days, meaning I'm back on it, for a couple of weeks now, which has just exacerbated my depression. I think I did notice a weird increase in anxiety the very first time I began it. Now it's hard to say b/c I'm used to that level. I don't know how much AD properties it has with me. Actually I think none at all.
I was only on Paxil and Buspar for 2-3 weeks each. Wellbutrin for 4 months. Effexor for 6-7 weeks.
BTW, it is my experience that anyone I've dealt with in the mental health field- psychiatrists, PHD's, psychologists, therapists, ect. are condescending, sketptical, and demeaning. They treat my like less than a person. Which is why is prefer my GP, who makes me feel like an equal who deserves to get better.
Posted by jealibeanz on August 10, 2006, at 23:35:26
In reply to Re: Bipolar? Self diagnosis... » jealibeanz, posted by Phillipa on August 10, 2006, at 23:32:26
Luckily it's a physical and not a recheck, so I have time. Yet i have a number of issues... depression, the insomnia, straterra. I always forget pertinent ideas, so writing things down is good, but I don't really want to be reading from a list.
Posted by Phillipa on August 10, 2006, at 23:35:59
In reply to Re: Bipolar? Self diagnosis..., posted by jealibeanz on August 10, 2006, at 23:33:30
Then that's who you should see. You have trust and that's important. Love phillipa
Posted by Racer on August 11, 2006, at 1:34:33
In reply to Re: Bipolar? Self diagnosis..., posted by jealibeanz on August 10, 2006, at 23:33:30
> I always forget pertinent ideas, so writing things down is good, but I don't really want to be reading from a list.
You wrote that to Phillipa, but it made me laugh: I have a spreadsheet that I take along if I see a new psychiatrist, with all the meds I've been on, how long, what results, what side effects, etc. Yeah, I know, I'm nuts, but your comment still made me laugh. Mostly at myself.
> That makes sense about OCD/anxiety like manifestation. While I don't think I have clinical OCD, I do get fixated on ideas, especially since this matter is a huge part of my life.
Yeah, and the fixation is a big part of the OCD stuff. (I'm too tired to write properly. If I get to "Whosamawhatsit," though, I'll stop and finish in the morning, I promise.) I wouldn't have thought I had it, although I knew that I was a little weird about some things. One day I was telling my T something, just as an aside, and she started laughing and said, "That's because you have OCD!" We've talked about it since then, and I guess it's fairly official, although it doesn't impair my life much. (Unless you count telephone calls to a friend for diagnostic consults...) Mostly, I get some sort of idea in my head that I can't really get out. Sometimes it's something silly but understandable -- I can't stand having sticky hands. Dirty hands? Yeah, I can kinda handle that, but sticky? Get the heck out of my way and hold that bathroom door -- I *need* to wash my hands. Sometimes it's something that used to be semi-adaptive, but no longer is -- used to be that an A reduced my anxiety, now I have huge anxiety about the possibility that I might NOT get an A. And sometimes it's just kinda stupid -- I've started taking some classes, and find I'm spending all too much time considering what classes I'll be taking next year, and what that means in terms of other classes I might take instead or as well as, and whether I should take class [x] next summer or wait until the fall term since summer classes are so intense or -- it's nothing more than energy being wasted. (Energy I could use to post here! lol) There's very little of what many people think OCD is about.
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> No,thankfully no history of anorexia (how does that translate to being able to get less sleep anyway?),Sorry, I get confused about who's who sometimes. Part of anorexia is hyperactivity. Sometimes that means early wakening, or restless sleep, and then getting through the day with less sleep. (And good that you don't have that history.)
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> I was only on Paxil and Buspar for 2-3 weeks each. Wellbutrin for 4 months. Effexor for 6-7 weeks.Other than the WB, that's not really long enough to know if anything would have worked. It's worth another try, especially of Lexapro or maybe Zoloft or Celexa. Paxil is actually the most anxiolytic, but if you had trouble with it, that's probably not a good one.
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> BTW, it is my experience that anyone I've dealt with in the mental health field- psychiatrists, PHD's, psychologists, therapists, ect. are condescending, sketptical, and demeaning. They treat my like less than a person. Which is why is prefer my GP, who makes me feel like an equal who deserves to get better.
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>Yeah, some of them can be [insert derogatory term/phrase here], but they do know more about medications than GPs do. And I wouldn't say you're treatment resistant, either. I think you posted that somewhere else. TRD generally means adequate trials at therapeutic doses of at least two classes of meds.
Good luck.
Posted by jealibeanz on August 11, 2006, at 4:20:55
In reply to Re: Bipolar? Self diagnosis..., posted by Racer on August 11, 2006, at 1:34:33
Well I can relate to your story about planning/worry about classes, ect. I'm overanalytical like that and do waste a lot of energy just worrying about everything and every possibility!
Yeah I know I haven't tried enough SSRI's, but one of the main reasons I stopped is because of the major weight gain with all of them(the reason for switching off Paxil/Buspar so soon). I know Wellbutrin shouldn't cause this, but it did. So I'm completely opposed to any medication with serotonin reuptake, no matter what the claims of potential side effects may be.
Too bad b/c everyone's answer to everything these days is SSRI's. There are so many to try, they can just keep throwing them out at you. I haven't experienced this with my doc actually, since I haven't pursued depression enough, but thats the way most practices run now.
Posted by SLS on August 11, 2006, at 6:14:51
In reply to Bipolar? Self diagnosis..., posted by jealibeanz on August 10, 2006, at 15:04:26
I would just add that there is a difference between reduced sleep and a reduced need for sleep. You do not function as well with the reduced sleep. People who are manic function just fine on 4 or less hours of sleep. They just don't need any more than that.
I tend to agree with the others. You don't appear to be bipolar. Perhaps there were periods of time in the past when your depression was less severe or in remission that you are now looking at with suspicion as being possibly manic episodes.
Your self-reporting is excellent.
- Scott
Posted by jealibeanz on August 11, 2006, at 7:03:14
In reply to Re: Bipolar? Self diagnosis... » jealibeanz, posted by SLS on August 11, 2006, at 6:14:51
Right, I don't function well on 2 hours of sleep. I can't even begin to measure the extent of my impairment, though. It's been sooo long since I regularly got 7-8 hours of sleep. When I read articles warning people that 6 hours isn't enough I just think-- wowww those 6 hour people don't know how good they have it!
This makes me feel a little better about not bringing up bipolar. I just wanted to make sure for myself that I truely wasn't ignoring a major issue, since it's something I've considered. I don't want to be kicking myself 10 yrs from now because I didn't get help.
Thanks, I guess! (about the self-reporting) I've been that by almost every doctor/counselor I've seen. (although not by my current one). I suppose I hold back way too much with him, despite the fact that I like him. I try to please him with the idea that all is well, or at least better than it really is.
My mother reminds me sometimes that I can't feel bad about bringing up my concerns, making appointments, or calling about prescriptions b/c I know they're busy. Other patients shouln't take priority, we're all equal. He's working for me and it's his job! I really don't know why I feel this way because when I'm in his office, with him or any employee, I'm treated like I'm the most important person evvver!
Posted by Jost on August 11, 2006, at 12:00:40
In reply to Re: Bipolar? Self diagnosis..., posted by jealibeanz on August 10, 2006, at 23:16:23
> I'm not really sure a pdoc is an option. I've been only to one, the one my insurance would cover. He was horrible. Made me feel worthless, incompetetent, and completely to blame for any unhappiness in my life. He told me I was perfectly fine and refused to help with any type of medication whatsoever.
>---That pdoc must have been unusual. Maybe of an old school, where pdocs were more therapists than writers of prescriptions.
If you go to most pdocs now, they see their primary role as evaluating appropriate medications, and I can't imagine any uptodate and competent one who would refuse to give you any AD at all, if you told him what you've written here.
> So just my own doctor isn't OK? Do they at times treat tx resistent or bipolar patients? I do forget that others can't read my mind or know all my history without me telling them. He actually doesn't know I have recurrent episodes, which is significant. I just never thought to come out and say it because to me it's very apparent.Jealibeanz,
---You say you trust the GP and he's caring and respectful, but you also say you can't bring yourself to tell him that you're depressed.
If it's hard to say that to him in person, what about sending an email, or, if not email, writing a short letter explaining your experiences, recurrent depressions, and current emotional state.
You've also said you're on good terms with other professionals in his office-- nurse, assistants, etc. Is there one of them whom you feel particularly trusting of? Maybe you could tell him/her and ask that they relay the information to the GP for you. (Or write an email, or letter, to him/her.)
Maybe if you turn it around, you'll feel a little better:
What if someone came to you, as a professional, with the problems that you've described: Wouldn't you want to help? You would be respectful and helpful.
Contrary to your expectations, that might be exactly how your GP, and others in his office will react.
Maybe take a couple of messages from this board, and send those, if you can't face writing the letter/email. Sometimes I put off writing hard emails, or letters-- but you've described how you feel very well, here.
Maybe time to take the next step in being able to do what you want in life. Step out of the self-analytic, self-questioning feedback loop that we all get stuck in, in a half self-protective,/half self-defeating way-- at times.
Jost
Posted by Racer on August 11, 2006, at 12:21:28
In reply to Re: Bipolar? Self diagnosis..., posted by jealibeanz on August 11, 2006, at 4:20:55
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> Yeah I know I haven't tried enough SSRI's, but one of the main reasons I stopped is because of the major weight gain with all of them(the reason for switching off Paxil/Buspar so soon). I know Wellbutrin shouldn't cause this, but it did. So I'm completely opposed to any medication with serotonin reuptake, no matter what the claims of potential side effects may be.
>Buspar isn't an SSRI, and Paxil is the SSRI most known for weight gain. Have you had any trials lasting two months or more of any other SSRIs?
Also, Wellbutrin is not serotonergic.
I'm sorry you're struggling so much. I'm also sorry to say that I need to back out of this thread, because it's beginning to upset me enough I'm afraid I'll write something inappropriate.
Good luck.
Posted by jealibeanz on August 11, 2006, at 14:28:14
In reply to Re: Bipolar? Self diagnosis... » jealibeanz, posted by Racer on August 11, 2006, at 12:21:28
Upset? About something I wrote? Sorry if I offended you. I definitely mean no harm and apologize if I unknowingly stepped on your toes.
Yeah, I know Buspar isn't an SSRI. Neither is Wellbutrin SR (but not regular), however, it <may> have some modification on the rate of serotonin release, it's just not that main intent of the drug. I can actually say that I believe it did on me due to the well know serotonin-induced apathetic feeling I had while on it. I say that I don't want an SSRI because that's about all that's left of the "safe" medications, since I've already taken the alternative "safe" drugs (Effexor, Buspar, Wellbutrin).
Posted by jealibeanz on August 11, 2006, at 14:35:17
In reply to Re: Bipolar? Self diagnosis..., posted by Jost on August 11, 2006, at 12:00:40
You know what he was actually a fairly young pdoc, definitely not old school, but seemed totally against medications for the majority of people who experience depression or anxiety. Weird.
Yes, you're right I do need to make that next plunge and talk to my doctor! I just like to overanalyze first!:) It does make me feel a little more apt to bring up the subject when I am more active in discussions such as this though. I feel a little more normal.
Seeing stats about the percentages of people who every day go to their physician for mental health is quite a wake up call. You walk around thinking everyone you run in to in public is perfectly healthy and happy. I suppose we all just like to give that impression.
In some ways it seems like I shouldn't be dwelling by researching and interacting with other people with problems. But if I were to ignore these resources on the internet I would never have known about the possibility of getting help and what options exist.
Posted by nickguy on August 11, 2006, at 17:41:43
In reply to Re: Bipolar? Self diagnosis... » jealibeanz, posted by Racer on August 11, 2006, at 12:21:28
> I'm sorry you're struggling so much. I'm also sorry to say that I need to back out of this thread, because it's beginning to upset me enough I'm afraid I'll write something inappropriate.
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> Good luck.
I think what he meant is that your situation is getting frustrating even for other people. You've written so many threads talking about how your depressed and you love your GP but won't tell him. I think people just want you to get on with it already ( I don't mean that in an offensive manner, it's just that it's either one way or the other...tell him or talk to a different PDOC ((there are some great, friendly, non-condescending ones out there)) or stop asking for ways to get help.
Posted by jealibeanz on August 11, 2006, at 19:21:59
In reply to Re: Bipolar? Self diagnosis..., posted by nickguy on August 11, 2006, at 17:41:43
Well, yes, I'm am offended that people don't like that I've had a lot of posts recently. This is not directed at you, Nickguy. If you look at the boards at any given period of time, they are always dominated by a select few people, often in small spurts of a matter of weeks, who are going through an unusually difficult time or having acute problems with illness or medication. I've never seen any complaints about this happening in the past, even though it's very apparent that it occurs.
There's the option of not reading certain member's post, which I do from time to time when a particular person has been posting an unusual amount. I always respected this board for the large wealth or knowledge and treatment options presented by its members, however, I clearly am not welcome any longer. Hopefully nobody else who needs help and support will be made to feel uncomfortable... Signing off...
Posted by Phillipa on August 11, 2006, at 20:00:02
In reply to Re: Bipolar? Self diagnosis..., posted by Racer on August 11, 2006, at 1:34:33
Racer seems like we're similar. I hate dirt on my hands and just won't put them in dirt. But my understanding was you consistently washed your hands for no reason for it to be OCD? Well I also add up license plates and assign a number as to where they appear in the alphabet to the letters and add them all together. Do you pick you cuticles too? And when in school or even not that I'm not in school I drive my husband nuts changing from one thing to the other . Almost like thinking outloud. So luvox maybe helps it. But most of the time when I preform this ritualistic behavior is to relieve anxiety. Doesn't always work but sometimes it does. And I used to keep daily notes of the times I took my meds, what I did that day, and how I felt. I threw them away when we moved. I had a stack of around l5 legal pads. But Jost Maybe just write down the most important things? And I just don't know about which type of doc is better. It depends on whether they read journals and keep up on meds. I know a pdoc only does med checks for around l0minutes after the first time. That's my experience and sometimes a good GP will spend more time. You could always see both? Love Phillipa
Posted by Phillipa on August 11, 2006, at 20:01:38
In reply to Re: Bipolar? Self diagnosis... » Racer, posted by Phillipa on August 11, 2006, at 20:00:02
Sorry that was to jealibenz sp? Sorry Love Phillipa
Posted by nickguy on August 11, 2006, at 23:40:53
In reply to Re: Bipolar? Self diagnosis..., posted by jealibeanz on August 11, 2006, at 19:21:59
(Jealibeanz, Imagine me as a friend, when reading this) I didn't mean for you to take that personally. Of course people post more than others, but I think it's just frustrating for people when you say you need help and talk about meds yet refuse to tell your doc. These people have all offered suggestions that they just want you to take to heart, even though they don't know you. The only reason it's frustrating is because you could help yourself so much by just telling your doctor. Telling people here repetitively about your problem is not going to get you anywhere. Yes it's difficult but eventually action just needs to be taken, forcefully on your part.
Posted by Jost on August 11, 2006, at 23:52:17
In reply to Re: Bipolar? Self diagnosis..., posted by nickguy on August 11, 2006, at 23:40:53
Jealibeanz, I hope you don't take nickguy's statement as a personal criticism.
I think he meant it in a caring way. Maybe a little tough-love way, because he sees that your hesitation is putting your future at risk.
He (and I think all of us) would wish that you could cut through the over-thinking, and let someone in-- someone in your RL who could help you more than any of us can.
Part of it is that you've had a few doctors appointments, and these seem like moments when you could take the leap, the risk-- and so this seems like an opportunity, and also a moment when things at school are coming to a point--
That's why he was pushing harder, because the appointment is soon. That may have felt like a rejection-- I don't know nickguy, but I feel very sure that he wasn't wanting you to leave here.
Jost
Posted by Jost on August 12, 2006, at 0:00:08
In reply to Re: Bipolar? Self diagnosis... » Racer, posted by Phillipa on August 11, 2006, at 20:00:02
Phillipa, you might have some OCD=like tendencies.
But since you were a nurse, your avoidance of dirt on your hands sounds very job-related. also job-necessary.
These diagnostic categories, to me, are such that once you think about it, you can fit some things you do into a lot of them. I tend to obsess on things-- so if I were thinking about OCD, I could fit that in--
It's a little like astrology-- okay it's more scientifically grounded-- but when you have a category, suddenly you have a way to think about yourself.
Maybe it's just fun to add up license plate numbers (and letters)-- a little thought experiment.
I go through phases of writing down medications and reactions-- infact, I find that I don't carry through-- which is also not so good. I'd like a better record of how I reacted, and when I did what. And I also accumulate some papers, which I'm sure I'll never look at--- so who knows what it means?
Jost
Posted by Racer on August 12, 2006, at 14:23:20
In reply to Re: Bipolar? Self diagnosis..., posted by nickguy on August 11, 2006, at 17:41:43
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> I think what he meant is that your situation is getting frustrating even for other people. You've written so many threads talking about how your depressed and you love your GP but won't tell him. I think people just want you to get on with it alreadyThat's nothing at all like why I'm bowing out. I'm backing away for reasons personal to me, because of things that are triggering for me.
Jellybeanz has every right to post about whatever she needs as many times as she needs for any reason she likes. She can even post for no reason -- although that's likely to be moved to Social ;-)
Again, Nick's reasoning has nothing whatsoever to do with my decision to back away from this topic.
Also, I'd prefer other people didn't try to speak for me. I always feel wrong when I see that happening.
Posted by nickguy on August 12, 2006, at 22:12:59
In reply to For the record, that's *not* what I meant » nickguy, posted by Racer on August 12, 2006, at 14:23:20
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> > I think what he meant is that your situation is getting frustrating even for other people. You've written so many threads talking about how your depressed and you love your GP but won't tell him. I think people just want you to get on with it already
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> That's nothing at all like why I'm bowing out. I'm backing away for reasons personal to me, because of things that are triggering for me.
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> Jellybeanz has every right to post about whatever she needs as many times as she needs for any reason she likes. She can even post for no reason -- although that's likely to be moved to Social ;-)
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> Again, Nick's reasoning has nothing whatsoever to do with my decision to back away from this topic.
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> Also, I'd prefer other people didn't try to speak for me. I always feel wrong when I see that happening.
well good to clear it up racerdude, but thats how I feel and it seemed like thats how you felt since you didn't make any sense at all with that post. You made jealibeanz think she offended you, so don't put your sh*t on me.
Posted by Dinah on August 13, 2006, at 13:58:40
In reply to Re: For the record, that's *not* what I meant, posted by nickguy on August 12, 2006, at 22:12:59
> well good to clear it up racerdude, but thats how I feel and it seemed like thats how you felt since you didn't make any sense at all with that post. You made jealibeanz think she offended you, so don't put your sh*t on me.
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Posted by nickguy on August 15, 2006, at 1:36:11
In reply to Please follow civility guidelines » nickguy, posted by Dinah on August 13, 2006, at 13:58:40
I apologize. I took racer's vague statement and made it into my interpretation and made my opinion his, and than cursed him when I was drunk and typing on here. I'll try to be more civil.
Posted by Dinah on August 15, 2006, at 11:17:12
In reply to Re: Please follow civility guidelines, posted by nickguy on August 15, 2006, at 1:36:11
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