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Posted by kazoo on June 9, 2000, at 1:19:37
In reply to Holiday Tragedy, posted by Cam W. on June 8, 2000, at 2:37:54
Dear Cam:
Nothing I can possibly say will ease your pain, but
I do want you to know how sorry I am for you and your family.It is at times like these that one realizes just how fragile
(and precious) life is.With heart-felt sympathy,
I remain,
a very sad,
kazoo :-(
Posted by JohnB on June 9, 2000, at 3:56:28
In reply to Holiday Tragedy, posted by Cam W. on June 8, 2000, at 2:37:54
Just want to express my deepest sympathies. I am stunned at this. Please come back when you can . . . . --JohnB
Posted by Rach on June 9, 2000, at 3:58:45
In reply to Re: Holiday Tragedy, posted by Tina1 on June 8, 2000, at 7:03:19
Cam,
I have never 'discussed' anything with you yet, but like everyone else here, I am thinking of you. Words can never be enough - but we can only try. Cherish the sweet memories you have of your daughter, and she will live on as a part of you.
I wish you all the best.
Rach
Posted by Jennifer on June 9, 2000, at 4:55:11
In reply to Re: Holiday Tragedy, posted by Rach on June 9, 2000, at 3:58:45
Cam, I wanted to express my deepest sympathy to you yesterday when I first read of your family's loss. The emotion was too strong, so tonight I'm here to let you know that my family is praying for your family. I can fathom the loss of a child, and perhaps that is why you can be sure that you are continually in my thoughts. If there is anything that can be done, please post.
With love to you all, Jennifer
> Cam,
>
> I have never 'discussed' anything with you yet, but like everyone else here, I am thinking of you. Words can never be enough - but we can only try. Cherish the sweet memories you have of your daughter, and she will live on as a part of you.
>
> I wish you all the best.
> Rach
Posted by lin on June 9, 2000, at 11:37:52
In reply to Re: Holiday Tragedy, posted by Jennifer on June 9, 2000, at 4:55:11
Cam,
There are no words for a time like this except that I am so, so sorry for your loss. You were such a help to me and to so many others. Your absence will be felt and you will be in our thoughts.
Lin
Posted by S.D. on June 9, 2000, at 14:57:53
In reply to Holiday Tragedy, posted by Cam W. on June 8, 2000, at 2:37:54
I can't add anything to what has already been said, except to add my (nick-)name to the list of those that wish to express their sympathy.
You have been so generous here with your knowledge and experience that I owe you a debt of gratitude. Your absence will be missed, but of course understood.S.D.
Posted by SarahB on June 9, 2000, at 16:55:52
In reply to Holiday Tragedy, posted by Cam W. on June 8, 2000, at 2:37:54
Cam, I am so, so, sorry. I can not fully understand your pain, but as a mother, I can somewhat. Please accept my deepest sympathy. Sarah
Posted by Kim on June 9, 2000, at 18:28:50
In reply to Holiday Tragedy, posted by Cam W. on June 8, 2000, at 2:37:54
Oh, Cam, I am SO sorry! I consider you one of my PBabble friends, and my heart aches for your loss. This really hits home for me; my own daughter just returned June 2 from spending four months as an intern at Walt Disney World. I missed her immensely; but I realize now that is nothing compared to your grief. You and your family will be in my prayers.
Kim
Posted by Janice on June 9, 2000, at 22:51:55
In reply to Holiday Tragedy, posted by Cam W. on June 8, 2000, at 2:37:54
What a terrible tragedy Cam. I am so sorry you have lost your Suzanne. I remember you mentioning her in one of your posts…that she was in university and 18 years old. As I'm sure there are no words to describe your pain, I have no words to make anything better. But I am so very, very sad for you.
Whatever your beliefs are Cam, I hope they can help to sustain you through these tragic times. And like many folks on this thread, I will be thinking of you and saying my own prayers for you and your family.
If you need ears to hear your pain, please don't forget me (and I'm sure many others) here at psychobabble.
I hope you have reached your father.
God bless you and your family Cam. Janice
Posted by quilter on June 9, 2000, at 23:30:05
In reply to Re: Holiday Tragedy, posted by Janice on June 9, 2000, at 22:51:55
I'm so very sorry. Tie a knot and hang on...
Quilter
Posted by Renee N on June 10, 2000, at 1:13:16
In reply to Holiday Tragedy, posted by Cam W. on June 8, 2000, at 2:37:54
Dear Cam,,
This is a horrible thing and hard to grasp. You said you are in shock, it must seem so unreal. I remember how happy we all were that you and your family were taking a much needed and deserved break from your millions of projects and responsibilities. I am glad about the wonderful time you had together. I am so sad for you all about the sudden, unexpected, tragic loss of your daughter.
Bless you and yours. Know that you are loved...Renee N
Posted by Snowie on June 10, 2000, at 8:13:57
In reply to Holiday Tragedy, posted by Cam W. on June 8, 2000, at 2:37:54
Cam W.,
I live in Florida and graduated from the University of Central Florida in Orlando. We're finally getting some rain now, so Florida must be crying for you and your family. My deepest sympathy at your tragic loss.
Snowie
Posted by margret on June 10, 2000, at 10:59:07
In reply to Holiday Tragedy, posted by Cam W. on June 8, 2000, at 2:37:54
Cam-
I am so very sorry to hear of your loss. My thoughts are with you and your family.margret
Posted by allisonm on June 10, 2000, at 16:38:48
In reply to Holiday Tragedy, posted by Cam W. on June 8, 2000, at 2:37:54
Dear Cam,
I am so very sorry.
My mother died suddenly two years ago next month and I still am not entirely over it. Probably never will be exactly, because things have changed so with her absence.
I can't pray anymore, but know my thoughts are with you.
Allison
Posted by JanetR on June 11, 2000, at 0:10:20
In reply to Re: Holiday Tragedy, posted by allisonm on June 10, 2000, at 16:38:48
> Dear Cam,
>
> I am so very sorry.
>
> My mother died suddenly two years ago next month and I still am not entirely over it. Probably never will be exactly, because things have changed so with her absence.
>
> I can't pray anymore, but know my thoughts are with you.
>
> AllisonDear Cam, I'm sorry to hear about your daughter. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. Jan
Posted by Rick on June 11, 2000, at 12:52:20
In reply to Re: Holiday Tragedy, posted by JanetR on June 11, 2000, at 0:10:20
Cam -
I'm so sorry to hear about your daughter's passing. I know it will be very difficult, but I'm confident that you, your wife, and your 4 year old will cope. My prayers are with you.
Rick
Posted by dj on June 11, 2000, at 18:07:02
In reply to Re: Holiday Tragedy, posted by Rick on June 11, 2000, at 12:52:20
It's hard to understand the tragedies and travails that surround us at times. It's even more of a tragedy when one's child preceeds a parent to the grave. I would imagine that your daughter's time on earth was better than many as you are such a kind and compassionate soul. I hope that you have lots of close friends and family to help you through this time of tragedy.
Posted by Cynthia M. on June 12, 2000, at 10:43:46
In reply to Re: Cam, my condolences!, posted by dj on June 11, 2000, at 18:07:02
Cam - please know that you and your wife are not alone- my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. I hope that you will find comfort in the love and concern of your friends here and closer to home. Love and prayers- Cynthia
Posted by Suzie on June 12, 2000, at 13:40:35
In reply to Holiday Tragedy, posted by Cam W. on June 8, 2000, at 2:37:54
> I am so sorry to hear about your loss. I have 3 daughters myself and cannot possibly imagine what you must be going through.
I pray that your hearts are lightened each and every passing day.
My condolences to you and your family.
Suzie
Posted by Aylese on June 13, 2000, at 21:45:39
In reply to Holiday Tragedy, posted by Cam W. on June 8, 2000, at 2:37:54
Cam,
Your compassion and goodness has been a gift to all of us here in Babble. Please know how great is our sorrow for you and yours at this most sad time.Hugs and tears
Posted by Cam W. on June 14, 2000, at 11:48:18
In reply to Holiday Tragedy, posted by Cam W. on June 8, 2000, at 2:37:54
To Everyone - Thank you for your support and caring. Your thoughts and kindness have really helped us this past week. The funeral was wonderful; a real celebration of Suzanne's life. Close to 600 people attended. Mental Health Services was over-represented. The entire CRS (Community Rehab Services) team, minus 1 secretary & 1 nurse to answer phones, was present. Almost all of my and my wife's work attended. Even many of her nursing class and several of her instructors attended.
Also, our local A&W (her 1st job) has set up a scholarship in her name at the local high school, for those going into nursing (in addition to the College's scholarship). We have taken the suggestions you have given into consideration and are leaning to community service and, perhaps participation in Girl Guides, as criteria (Suzanne was one of the last GGs to recieve the Canada Chord - Guiding's highest honor in our country).
I really feel for her mother, though. I believe that she is harbouring a lot of guilt about not spending enough time with Suzanne. They had her so overmedicated that I do not believe that she has even begun to 'really' grieve (she was really sad though). I have not talked to her (entirely civily) in years, but if some of you could pray for her as well, it would be appreciated.
I have printed all of you responses and they will be included in Suzanne's memory chest, with some of her other belongings. We are giving away most of her stuff to those who can use it (TV, VCR, telephone, answering machine & furniture to her roommate; leather jacket to her best friend; most clothes to Goodwill - keeping the memorable and favorite clothes; stuffed animals and jewellery to her sister, Ana; and pictures and momentos to family and friends.
I am keeping her school ring and am wearing as a pinky ring, to remind me of her eveyday. Remind me to show it to you if I ever meet any of you (I really doubt that you'll have to remind me, though).
Thank you again. I was planning on writing a long and detailed reply to all of you special people, but I just don't have the energy right now. I just wanted to say that I do not believe I have ever been associated with a kinder group of people. Thank you everyone, from the bottom of my heart.
- Love Cam
Posted by Diane E. on June 14, 2000, at 12:18:40
In reply to To Everyone, posted by Cam W. on June 14, 2000, at 11:48:18
Cam,
I am amazed and touched by the compassion you are able to show for other (e.g., you daughter's mother,
the members of this group) at this very difficult time. We are lucky to have such a caring individual
as a member of this community.
My thoughts are with you, your family, and your daughter's mother at this time.
-Diane
Posted by Archangel on June 15, 2000, at 12:13:12
In reply to Holiday Tragedy, posted by Cam W. on June 8, 2000, at 2:37:54
For the "whatever it's worth" category, this story from CNN online:
http://www.cnn.com/2000/US/06/15/dangerous.walking.ap/index.html
According to a study, Orlando is #4 most dangerous U.S. city for pedestrians.
I'm still very saddened by Suzanne's passing. Cam, having read on this board your account of her achievements, she sounds like a remarkable person.
Posted by CraigF on June 15, 2000, at 17:47:19
In reply to Re: Holiday Tragedy, posted by Aylese on June 13, 2000, at 21:45:39
Just another voice that you would never recognize in person...but please accept my deepest sympathies and condolences. This is my first return to Babbleland in weeks. I always look for your name bc of your sage and sincere advice you provide to everyone you can answer. You are appreciated. Please take care of yourself
Posted by Ninafel on June 21, 2000, at 12:07:47
In reply to Re: Holiday Tragedy, posted by CraigF on June 15, 2000, at 17:47:19
Cam, I just read about your tragedy. (Thank you, tina, for telling me where to look.) Even though I just joined this message board yesterday, I read many of the helpful and well thought out posts you have written and I feel as if you are a personal friend. Your loss touched me to the core. My heart is with you.
--Nina
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