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Posted by Toph on January 22, 2006, at 0:33:59
In reply to Toph, posted by Dinah on January 21, 2006, at 23:06:57
I started to write some long description of my understanding of this issue on the Relationship Board (as a relationship dynamic, I felt it best there) and, well, it seems kind of complicate, and I'm sort of at an impass in therapy in being able to do much about it, so I erased it not having the energy to complete it. Sorry. I'd probably contribute if someone else wanted to get it started.
Posted by NikkiT2 on January 22, 2006, at 5:59:04
In reply to Re: Grief board, posted by Dr. Bob on January 21, 2006, at 23:26:48
>"But I suppose it could stay, but just not have posts redirected to it anymore. Is that what you mean?"
Thats what I'd like. Its something thats been on my mind these past two days.. I'm about to lose my gran, and was worried that I'd post on social, it would get redirected to grief, and I'd never remember to go back there (I am a creature of habit completely, I check the boards I check, and forget entirely to check any others). I thus wouldn't thank people for their thoughts and support.
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As for the sharks discussion.
I think one of the problems is that when a Elephant falls into the aquarium, we're unable to name the Elephant, and thus discuss it.
I don't know how to over come it, but I think we can all be agreed that we do often have problems with elephants in the room, yet we don't seem to have an elephant keeper. Yes, we have the deputies, but when we are faced with the problems, there is little we can do to truly discuss them out without being "accusing" and thus being uncivil.
Just thoughts to ponder
Nikki
Posted by Toph on January 22, 2006, at 7:09:37
In reply to Re: Grief board » Dr. Bob, posted by NikkiT2 on January 22, 2006, at 5:59:04
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> As for the sharks discussion.
>
> I think one of the problems is that when a Elephant falls into the aquarium, we're unable to name the Elephant, and thus discuss it...I sure got a visual, Nikki. Elephants do seem obsessed with nuts and they can be so difficult to ignore. ; )
Posted by NikkiT2 on January 22, 2006, at 7:43:41
In reply to Re: Grief board, posted by Toph on January 22, 2006, at 7:09:37
Should I admit to having been trying to find a suitable pic of an elephant, and a suitable pic of an aquarium in order to put the two together in paint shop?!
Nikki
Posted by Toph on January 22, 2006, at 7:50:36
In reply to Re: Grief board » Toph, posted by NikkiT2 on January 22, 2006, at 7:43:41
Posted by Dinah on January 22, 2006, at 8:29:53
In reply to Re: authority » Dinah, posted by Toph on January 22, 2006, at 0:33:59
I understand. I'm not at my posting best right now, so it's probably for the best.
Posted by Dr. Bob on February 4, 2006, at 18:44:22
In reply to Posting with love » Dr. Bob, posted by Dinah on January 15, 2006, at 15:00:16
> if a poster ... tries to comply with the civility guidelines, doesn't push the envelope, posts with charity to other posters, and then a fair period of time later comes afoul of the civility rules again, for example out of an excess of caring, passion, and a desire to help, why should that poster get a long block? Why not a one week cooling off block?
OK, the deputies and I have discussed this, and we're going to give it a try. I know it's been longer than 1 week, but I'm going to unblock Larry now.
Bob
Posted by wildcard11 on February 4, 2006, at 18:54:49
In reply to Re: unblocking with love, posted by Dr. Bob on February 4, 2006, at 18:44:22
Posted by Dinah on February 4, 2006, at 19:06:26
In reply to Re: unblocking with love, posted by Dr. Bob on February 4, 2006, at 18:44:22
Posted by TexasChic on February 4, 2006, at 20:02:00
In reply to :-) (nm) » Dr. Bob, posted by Dinah on February 4, 2006, at 19:06:26
Posted by Phillipa on February 4, 2006, at 20:03:39
In reply to Re: unblocking with love, posted by Dr. Bob on February 4, 2006, at 18:44:22
Thanks Dr. Bob!!!! Fondly, Phillipa
Posted by alexandra_k on February 4, 2006, at 20:16:37
In reply to Re: unblocking with love, posted by Dr. Bob on February 4, 2006, at 18:44:22
Posted by ClearSkies on February 4, 2006, at 21:37:55
In reply to Re: unblocking with love, posted by Dr. Bob on February 4, 2006, at 18:44:22
Posted by ClearSkies on February 4, 2006, at 21:38:40
In reply to Great decision, great precendent set. (nm), posted by ClearSkies on February 4, 2006, at 21:37:55
great spelling
Posted by crazy teresa on February 4, 2006, at 22:03:00
In reply to Re: unblocking with love, posted by Dr. Bob on February 4, 2006, at 18:44:22
Posted by Larry Hoover on February 4, 2006, at 22:25:53
In reply to Re: unblocking with love, posted by Dr. Bob on February 4, 2006, at 18:44:22
> OK, the deputies and I have discussed this, and we're going to give it a try. I know it's been longer than 1 week, but I'm going to unblock Larry now.
>
> BobI am grateful, sir.
I liked your subject line, too.
Lar
Posted by muffled on February 4, 2006, at 23:31:56
In reply to Re: Thank you, Dr. Bob. » Dr. Bob, posted by Larry Hoover on February 4, 2006, at 22:25:53
There hope for babble yet!!!!!!!!!!!!
Good one guys!!!!
Muffled
Posted by Larry Hoover on February 5, 2006, at 0:06:31
In reply to Re: unblocking with love, posted by Dr. Bob on February 4, 2006, at 18:44:22
> OK, the deputies and I have discussed this, and we're going to give it a try. I know it's been longer than 1 week, but I'm going to unblock Larry now.
>
> BobThank you. Yes, you! ;-)
Lar
Posted by Dinah on February 5, 2006, at 1:04:28
In reply to Re: Thank you, Dr. Bob. » Dr. Bob, posted by Larry Hoover on February 4, 2006, at 22:25:53
Wasn't it?
Posted by teejay on February 5, 2006, at 7:16:34
In reply to Re: Thank you, Dr. Bob. » Dr. Bob, posted by Larry Hoover on February 4, 2006, at 22:25:53
You think you might stay with us for more than a couple of weeks this time Lar????? :-)))
Dr Bob will be dishing out part time memberships at this rate ;-)
TJ
Posted by Sobriquet Style on February 5, 2006, at 8:07:43
In reply to Re: Thank you, Dr. Bob., posted by teejay on February 5, 2006, at 7:16:34
"A significant and praiseworthy increase in computer intelligence"
Excellent.
Welcome back Mr Hoover.
~
Posted by Gabbix2 on February 5, 2006, at 23:28:23
In reply to Highly Commendable Administrative Action, posted by Sobriquet Style on February 5, 2006, at 8:07:43
that's great.
And that subject line..jiminy crickets.
My head is spinning.
Posted by Dr. Bob on February 6, 2006, at 10:59:08
In reply to Re: are WE not the community?, posted by Dr. Bob on January 10, 2006, at 2:08:09
> Would anyone like to volunteer to join the current deputy administrators? ... feel free to reply here or by email.
>
> Speaking of more democratic, I'm thinking about having an election this time. But how exactly to do it would still need to be worked out.Here are some specifics. I think we could accommodate 2 additional deputies now. Let say the deadline for volunteering is in 2 weeks = through Feb. 20.
I'm trying to establish some specific requirements. Currently, my idea is that candidates need to have been registered for 1 year, to have posted 300 times, and not to have been blocked for longer than 4 weeks at one time or within the last 3 months.
Volunteers should *not* assume that satisfying the above requirements means they'd automatically be selected. There may not be an "election", but there probably will be at least some sort of opportunity at some point for posters to provide feedback. I think that could be done here or privately, and any feedback that's posted will need to be civil, but still there's clearly the potential for dynamics involving acceptance, rejection, competition, envy, etc.
Any questions? Thanks for working together to keep this community going,
Bob
Posted by muffled on February 6, 2006, at 11:26:48
In reply to Re: openings for deputy administrators, posted by Dr. Bob on February 6, 2006, at 10:59:08
HA! I like how Bob tagged this bit onto the now happy, happy thread. Hmmmmmmm.
Anyhow, one question. Who would WANT to be a deputy? Gaaaaaack! Not my thing at all. And it must be time consuming and stressful at times. And you'd have to be calm and mature.
I guess its an altruistic thing.
But not my thing.
I am thankful and admire those who do it though...
Just was kinda curious is all.
Muffled.
Posted by Larry Hoover on February 6, 2006, at 12:04:20
In reply to Re: openings for deputy administrators, posted by Dr. Bob on February 6, 2006, at 10:59:08
> I'm trying to establish some specific requirements. Currently, my idea is that candidates need to have been registered for 1 year, to have posted 300 times, and not to have been blocked for longer than 4 weeks at one time or within the last 3 months.
That narrows it down a bit. Crazy T? You wanna?
Lar
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