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Posted by Shyla on September 28, 2004, at 9:59:58
In reply to Re: Effexor XR and orgasm » Shyla, posted by jujube on September 28, 2004, at 9:33:18
Thanks for the info Tamara. I ordered bio-identical testosterone cream. It is supposed to be identical to what our bodies produce and abosorb. I haven't received it yet, but if anyone is interested, I'll provide a follow-up to let you know if it is effective. I'm keeping my fingers crossed that it will be!!!!
> I've read a lot of good things about a natural product called "MACA". It is an adaptagen that is supposed to work by balancing all the endocrine glands, including the ovaries, testes, adrenals, thyroid and pancreas. It is supposed to help with loss of libido and promote healthy sexual functioning in men and women. It, apparently, has been used in Peru for thousands of years. It is sometimes referred to as the natural viagara. I recently bought some (Royal MACA through Wholeworld Botanicals), but have only started using it so can't say as yet whether or not it is effective. There is, however, a lot of information on the net about MACA. Anyways, just thought I would throw it out there as a natural option to a frustrating problem.
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> > > I don't even take wellbutrin myself but have done that in the past. I am on effexor and go on 24 hour holidays (just did yesterday) and orgasm fine after that short of a break. The first time I went on the day holiday I had mild side effects of withdrawel, but after a couple of times i have none.
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Posted by jujube on September 28, 2004, at 10:02:57
In reply to Re: Effexor XR and orgasm » jujube, posted by Shyla on September 28, 2004, at 9:59:58
Good luck to you. Take care.
Tamara
> Thanks for the info Tamara. I ordered bio-identical testosterone cream. It is supposed to be identical to what our bodies produce and abosorb. I haven't received it yet, but if anyone is interested, I'll provide a follow-up to let you know if it is effective. I'm keeping my fingers crossed that it will be!!!!
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> > I've read a lot of good things about a natural product called "MACA". It is an adaptagen that is supposed to work by balancing all the endocrine glands, including the ovaries, testes, adrenals, thyroid and pancreas. It is supposed to help with loss of libido and promote healthy sexual functioning in men and women. It, apparently, has been used in Peru for thousands of years. It is sometimes referred to as the natural viagara. I recently bought some (Royal MACA through Wholeworld Botanicals), but have only started using it so can't say as yet whether or not it is effective. There is, however, a lot of information on the net about MACA. Anyways, just thought I would throw it out there as a natural option to a frustrating problem.
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> > > I have tried the drug holiday, and now I'm also taking 300 mgs of Wellbutrin daily. I still have absolutely no libido, and very rarely reach orgasm. I've tried Zoloft, Remeron, Wellbutrin, and now I'm on 75 mgs. of Effexor XR. Next I'm going to try testosterone cream. If that doesn't work, then I'm going to consider seeing a sex therapist. That's the last possible solution I can think of. I feel like I'm running out of options, and it is frustrating and scarey.
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Posted by BethL on September 29, 2004, at 17:27:07
In reply to Anyone had success on Effexor XR? , posted by jp on October 24, 1999, at 14:59:14
Hi.
Couple of questions...What dosage (75mg-112mg-150 or higher) do you usually start feeling benefits from this drug? I am currently on 37.5 for two weeks and didn't feel anything except the first day. I'm about to increase to 75 mg this weekend. I've heard alot of people complain about weight gain...anyone here loose weight or at least NOT gain weight on effexor? Those of you that did gain weight, do you think it was an increase in appetite or decrease of metabolism caused by this drug.
thanx,
beth
Posted by Shyla on September 29, 2004, at 19:22:56
In reply to Dosage? weight gain? weight loss?, posted by BethL on September 29, 2004, at 17:27:07
I actually lost weight. But I'm on the Atkins diet, have been for a few years, and have found that I eat less because I get full sooner. Plus, I do try to always be aware of what and how much I'm eating. As soon as I begin to feel satisfied, I stop eating. However, I also think the Effexor XR has helped, because it seems a lot easier to control food intake since I've been on it, and I think it speeds up my metabolism. Everyone is different though, and may respond differently to meds. I have been taking 75 mgs for about 8 mos. now. I hope this helps.
Posted by Reece's Mom on September 29, 2004, at 19:32:49
In reply to Dosage? weight gain? weight loss?, posted by BethL on September 29, 2004, at 17:27:07
I have been on the drug for two months. I started out slowly and at the end of two weeks was up to 75 mg. Then the depression seemed to come back. Dr. doubled my dose to 150 mg. Now I am so sleepy and can not motivate myself to do anything. I called the Dr. today. He said take 150 one night and 75 the next night. Anyone else do this?
I have been on 150 mg for 3 weeks. How long should I wait to see if the sleepiness will decrease????
I take meds at night. Should I try am?
Thanks for the help.
Marsha
Posted by Shyla on September 29, 2004, at 19:41:36
In reply to Uping the dose....problems?, posted by Reece's Mom on September 29, 2004, at 19:32:49
You have to be a little patient with these meds. Some take a while to have their full effect. My doc told me to take it in the morning to help me sleep better at night. Do what your doc suggests, try it for a little while, see what happens. If you still have problems, tell your doc. I can't stress enough how important it is to be open with your doc. Mine has always worked with me. But I had to take responsibility for myself and make myself aware of how the med was affecting me and tell my doc. We keep trying. I also take Wellbutrin. I read that it gives one more energy. If the 150/75 alternating doesn't make much difference, you might want to mention Wellbutrin to your doc. Good luck!
Posted by Cybele on September 30, 2004, at 7:49:41
In reply to Dosage? weight gain? weight loss?, posted by BethL on September 29, 2004, at 17:27:07
I took 37.5 for a week then upped to 75mg. I started noticing a difference after about 4 weeks on 75mg. It just occurred to me one day that I was no longer haiving "down" days. I took it June through mid-September and gained about 15 pounds. I was eating more carbs, but I was also exericising more. Normally I should have gained at most 2-3 lbs eating the calories I did in and exercising the amount I did over this period, so my metabolism was definitely slowed by the Effexor. I had no desire to up my dosage because 75mg seemed to help, but it also made me dehydrated while it was metabolising. If I had a single alcoholic beverage in the evening (I took my Effexor at bedtime) then I'd get terribly dehydrated. Between that and the weight gain, the benefits weren't worth it to me. I wasn't *that* depressed to begin with.
If you've had bad luck or no luck with other ADs and you're feeling pretty low, I think Effexor is definitely worth it. If you start gaining weight, then I'd think you'd have to cut back on calories by 10-15% to maintain your weight.
I ramped down in dose for 10 days, and have been totally off now for two days. I have a little dizziness and irritability which might be due to withdrawal, but that's it.
Just my two cents :)
Posted by Cybele on September 30, 2004, at 7:58:11
In reply to Uping the dose....problems?, posted by Reece's Mom on September 29, 2004, at 19:32:49
> I have been on the drug for two months. I started out slowly and at the end of two weeks was up to 75 mg. Then the depression seemed to come back. Dr. doubled my dose to 150 mg. Now I am so sleepy and can not motivate myself to do anything. I called the Dr. today. He said take 150 one night and 75 the next night. Anyone else do this?
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>Marsha, what other ADs have you tried in your life and what were your experiences? Is your doctor a family physician or psychiatrist? Are you dreaming a lot at night? From my experience, too much REM skeep and short REM latency (you start dreaming almost as soon as fall asleep) can make you chronically sleepy during the day if it goes on long enough--like weeks. If that is the case, switching to AM *might* help.
Posted by Reece's Mom on September 30, 2004, at 8:37:13
In reply to Re: Uping the dose....problems? » Reece's Mom, posted by Cybele on September 30, 2004, at 7:58:11
I tried Paxil about 10 yrs ago and I stayed in the manic phase so I did not last too long on that one. I took Zoloft while preg with my 3rd child. It worked well.
It is my GYN that has given me E. I totally forgot to take it last night. I slept the best I have slept in weeks and I woke up this morning refreshed and happy. Which hasn't happened in about a week. I am beginning to think that 150 mg might be too much for me.
What do you think? I am not very educated when it comes to these meds.
I did take the 75 mg this morning. Two hours later, I feel happy and energtic. I wish I could figure it all out.
Marsha
Posted by StellaAnn on September 30, 2004, at 9:29:27
In reply to Re: Quit Effexor cold turkey--meow71877wildbean, posted by jujube on September 19, 2004, at 7:35:58
I have been taking Effexor for over a year now. When it was prescribed to me, I was on Zoloft. They switched me to Effexor to battle both depression and hot flashes. There has been a couple of times that I took myself off of the drug. Both times it was noticeable to friends and family that I was acting strange and to me, the hot flashes were wicked. I dread the day I go off of them completely.
Posted by sunny10 on September 30, 2004, at 10:57:56
In reply to Re: Effexor XR and orgasm » Shyla, posted by jujube on September 28, 2004, at 10:02:57
I had a breakdown (again)last February. I had felt myself cycling into it, called my doc and she put me back on the Depokate and Desipramine that I had previously been on. My diagnosis is Major Depression with General Anxiety. The breakdown happened anyway and I was put on Effexor XR. I take 75/mg a day, (I am a small person and I apparently have a small brain, too- LOL). That is enough to ease my general anxiety and depression enough for ME to control my situations, not the medication.
But even on this low dose, I have gained 13 lbs. (not pretty on my tiny frame)and suffer from a TOTAL inability to become aroused, thus pain during intercourse. My brain says, yes, yes, yes, but my body just won't respond.
I went to my gynecologist to rule out medical causes ( I had a LEEP procedure in June). He said that this was probably caused by the Effexor XR and gave me VagiFem, a "naturally-derived" estrogen insertable tablet which is usually prescribed to postmenapausal women. I am only 37. I just used the first one last night, so it is too soon to tell if it will work. I have thought about switching to Wellbutrin because it is said to cause "the least amount of sexual dysfunction". I am a little nervous taking estrogen because of cancer related possibilities.
Has anyone tried the estrogen tablet addition to Effexor XR and if so, are there any side effects? Has anyone switched to Wellbutrin because of weight gain and loss of sexual desire?Thanks for any light you can shed on this.
> Good luck to you. Take care.
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> > Thanks for the info Tamara. I ordered bio-identical testosterone cream. It is supposed to be identical to what our bodies produce and abosorb. I haven't received it yet, but if anyone is interested, I'll provide a follow-up to let you know if it is effective. I'm keeping my fingers crossed that it will be!!!!
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> > > > I have tried the drug holiday, and now I'm also taking 300 mgs of Wellbutrin daily. I still have absolutely no libido, and very rarely reach orgasm. I've tried Zoloft, Remeron, Wellbutrin, and now I'm on 75 mgs. of Effexor XR. Next I'm going to try testosterone cream. If that doesn't work, then I'm going to consider seeing a sex therapist. That's the last possible solution I can think of. I feel like I'm running out of options, and it is frustrating and scarey.
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> > > > > you can go off of effexor for 24 hours and it goes out of your system and you can have an orgasm. You can also add wellbutrin and stay on that during your drug "holiday" and it will hold your depression at bay and increase your libido.
> > > > > I don't even take wellbutrin myself but have done that in the past. I am on effexor and go on 24 hour holidays (just did yesterday) and orgasm fine after that short of a break. The first time I went on the day holiday I had mild side effects of withdrawel, but after a couple of times i have none.
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Posted by sunny10 on September 30, 2004, at 12:37:44
In reply to Re: Uping the dose....problems?, posted by Reece's Mom on September 30, 2004, at 8:37:13
Why would you gyn give you Effexor? Also, are you on Effexor or Effexor XR?
> I tried Paxil about 10 yrs ago and I stayed in the manic phase so I did not last too long on that one. I took Zoloft while preg with my 3rd child. It worked well.
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> It is my GYN that has given me E. I totally forgot to take it last night. I slept the best I have slept in weeks and I woke up this morning refreshed and happy. Which hasn't happened in about a week. I am beginning to think that 150 mg might be too much for me.
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> What do you think? I am not very educated when it comes to these meds.
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> I did take the 75 mg this morning. Two hours later, I feel happy and energtic. I wish I could figure it all out.
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Posted by Eric C on September 30, 2004, at 13:08:07
In reply to Effexor XR withdrawl to dave, posted by juniper on January 21, 2000, at 1:34:06
Was taking effexor xr 37.5 for about a month and a half then decided to get off of it. Its been about 2 - 4 days and was just wondering if there were any side effects due to withdrawing from it. I have heard that there have been symptoms from higher dosages but is it possible to have any symptoms from a small dosage. I am currently feeling spaced out and dizziness which enhances with movement. Could withdrawing from the effexor be the reason for it?
Posted by Reece's Mom on September 30, 2004, at 13:12:36
In reply to Re: Uping the dose....problems?, posted by sunny10 on September 30, 2004, at 12:37:44
I am in the middle of an adoption from hell! We are adopting a toddler boy who was suppose to be home last Jan. Nine months later.....there is still no end in sight. I have a strong family history of depression. I mainly control it thru therapy and exercise but in the summer it became apparent that I could no longer control it. It was controlling me. My therapist can not issue meds.
I am on Effexor XR.
Marsha
Posted by sunny10 on September 30, 2004, at 13:31:36
In reply to Re: Uping the dose....problems?, posted by Reece's Mom on September 30, 2004, at 13:12:36
sounds like you'll be a great Mom, congratulations!
I'm not sure why you'd be on 150 one day 75 the next, then 150 again... logically it sounds as if you would just be boomeranging every other day to me.
I "manage" with 75 a day, everyday. I prefer to be on a little medication as I can and not "drown". The therapy keeps me on track with the coping skills necessary to manage. I would assume that you are attempting the same thing, based on the fact that you mention family history of depression. My psychiatrist and medical doctor agree that , for me, 75 mg/day is enough to manage the Major Depression without changing my personality.
The only advice I can offer is to ask your medical doctor what they think. And, the best of luck both with the side effects and your new addition to the family !
Posted by StellaAnn on September 30, 2004, at 13:36:35
In reply to Re: Dosage? weight gain? weight loss? » BethL, posted by Cybele on September 30, 2004, at 7:49:41
I haven't gained while taking Effexor. But I tend to lose weight when depressed. As far as sex goes, I am just not interested anymore. I take meds for diabetes, cholestrol and water weight. I would like to be able to get off of some of these as I feel like a walking science experiment not to mention the monthly costs. UGGH
Posted by lorily on September 30, 2004, at 17:16:23
In reply to Any side effects from withdrawing from Effexor Xr?, posted by Eric C on September 30, 2004, at 13:08:07
Eric, that's definately a side effect. When I would turn my head or eyes even it felt like the elevator made a short stop. LOL
Posted by lorily on September 30, 2004, at 17:20:03
In reply to Re: Effexor XR and orgasm » jujube, posted by sunny10 on September 30, 2004, at 10:57:56
Sonny, Your weight gain is probably from the depakote. It has something that makes the appetite like crazy. Everything tasted toooo good. I'd be eating one thing and conjuring up the next (immediate) snack.
I tried Viagra for the lack of response (yes, I'm female) and it worked very well.
Posted by lorily on September 30, 2004, at 17:24:08
In reply to Re: Dosage? weight gain? weight loss? » BethL, posted by Shyla on September 29, 2004, at 19:22:56
Atkins worked for me with depakote too. Once I started taking effexor and my depression actually was relieved, I was better able to control my eating. I'm off effexor 2-1/2 months and have had no weight change.
Posted by terrics on September 30, 2004, at 17:31:50
In reply to Re: Effexor XR and orgasm, posted by april8 on September 27, 2004, at 22:44:31
Hi, I am on a ton of meds including effexor. One of my other meds is wellbutrin. Wellbutrin is a wonder drug for your sex life. Not only does it increase your libido, it also increases the length of orgasm by lord knows how much. I am female so I cannot speak for the men. My pdoc said it works like this for about 75% of patients. terrics (I am NOT kidding!).
Posted by catheirne on October 1, 2004, at 9:26:08
In reply to Re: Anyone had success on Effexor XR? YES! , posted by Shel on July 18, 2000, at 1:35:45
I started taking Effexor XR 8 days ago and I can't believe how much better I feel already! My Dr. started me at 75mg. and wants to get me up to 150. He wanted me to add 37.5 after the 3rd day and I did but it was too much too soon so I will stay at 75 for a while longer. From what I have read on this site (such great info) you need to increase this drug very slowly. I thank God for this drug! I was in a severe depression for over a year and nothing worked (tried Zoloft and Paxil) but Effexor had me feeling better by the 4th day. The side effects for me were dry mouth, tummy ache and I couldn NOT get to sleep but these have pretty much gone away and the trade off to feel better is worth it. YES, I have had great success with Effexor XR!
Posted by fork on October 1, 2004, at 10:03:31
In reply to Re: Anyone had success on Effexor XR? YES!, posted by catheirne on October 1, 2004, at 9:26:08
> I started taking Effexor XR 8 days ago and I can't believe how much better I feel already! My Dr. started me at 75mg. and wants to get me up to 150. He wanted me to add 37.5 after the 3rd day and I did but it was too much too soon so I will stay at 75 for a while longer. From what I have read on this site (such great info) you need to increase this drug very slowly. I thank God for this drug! I was in a severe depression for over a year and nothing worked (tried Zoloft and Paxil) but Effexor had me feeling better by the 4th day. The side effects for me were dry mouth, tummy ache and I couldn NOT get to sleep but these have pretty much gone away and the trade off to feel better is worth it. YES, I have had great success with Effexor XR!
Congratulations on finding the right medication. Today I have been on Effexor for 1 month (75mg) and I also felt better within the first few days at 37mg. The few negative side effects are gone with the exception being, I am still waking very early in the morning, but I have plenty of energy. I am still at 75mg with no plans to bump it up any higher. For me this medication has been a lifesaver. It may not be for every body, but I am very happy with it. Good Luck and Continued Success
Posted by Sinnielou on October 1, 2004, at 10:23:55
In reply to Re: Anyone had success on Effexor XR? YES!, posted by fork on October 1, 2004, at 10:03:31
Congrats to you both of your success with Effexor. I have been on it for a year and I have also had great success with it. I take mine late at night just before bed and I also take a smaller dosage mid afternoon it seems to be working very well for me. Good luck to you!!!
Shannon
Posted by sunny10 on October 1, 2004, at 11:54:08
In reply to Re: Effexor XR and orgasm, posted by terrics on September 30, 2004, at 17:31:50
Terrics,
I suffer with unipolar depression and GAD. I am only taking Effexor XR, and it has done WONDERFUL things for my outlook, but troubling side-effects are causing me to re-think the meds.
I am new to the board so I probably missed something in another thread that covers this question, but is it possible to REPLACE E with W, instead of having to take BOTH just to increase my libido? My live-in boyfriend and I miss the old me ! Brain says yes, body won't follow.And I HATE the idea of taking two meds when one handles the depression and anxiety...
Any ideas??
Posted by sunny10 on October 1, 2004, at 11:57:15
In reply to Re: Effexor XR and orgasm, posted by lorily on September 30, 2004, at 17:20:03
Lorily,
I haven't touched a Depakoate in eight months... the weight gain, for me, has to be from the Effexor XR.
Thanks for the Viagra tip- I am attempting to only use one med at a time, though...everything has too many side-effects.
See my reply to Terrics.
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