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Posted by Sara T on June 8, 2000, at 20:14:35
In reply to Re: Holiday Tragedy, posted by Phil on June 8, 2000, at 18:45:10
Cam -
I'd like to join the rest in expressing my deepest sympathy for you and your family. The loss of a child is one of the deepest lossed I can think of. I am so sorry this happed to you.
Sara T
Posted by Jade on June 8, 2000, at 21:27:41
In reply to Re: Holiday Tragedy, posted by Sara T on June 8, 2000, at 20:14:35
Dear Cam,
My heart goes out to you!! I wish you and your family much strength at this time!
Love Jade
Posted by Brenda on June 8, 2000, at 21:33:12
In reply to Holiday Tragedy, posted by Cam W. on June 8, 2000, at 2:37:54
> To All My Friends in Babbleland
>
> I don't know if I should bother you with this, but we left for Disney World on Sunday and went to Magic Kingdom on Monday and had a fantastic day, even though it was incredibly hot.
>
> We got back to our resort and there was a message about karaoke on our voice mail. My older daughter, Suzanne, decided to go. At 11:00pm my wife began to worry. I said she was a big girl and could take care of herself; we didn't need to smother her.
>
> At 1:00am she still wasn't home, so my wife (Suzanne's stepmom) called the front desk. Karaoke ended at 10:00pm and the desk asked if we were from Canada. Suzanne has a different last name than ours. The desk said they were sending security over. At this point my wife freaked. She woke me up.
>
> I waited a couple of minutes and security didn't come, so I looked out the front door and saw several police cars and flares blocking the road and traffic being re-routed. I jogged over to the scene and two EMS guys and two Troopers were on me immediately. They asked who I was and I told them my name, but my daughter, with a different last name hadn't come home. They asked me to describe what she was wearing. I did and that was when they told me she was dead.
>
> It seems that she was coming back from the bar the where karaoke had been (they didn't serve her because she was underage and she had drank 3 diet cokes). This was at 11:33pm. She was crossing the road on crosswalk with flashing lights with a guy from the same complex we were staying at. The guy saw the truck at the last second and turned. He had obstructed my daughter's view. The big truck (a 4X4) hit the guy's leg and hit my daughter flush. She hit the road and it fractured her skull. She died instantly and probably didn't know what hit her (thankfully).
>
> We went to the hospital and I.D.'d the body and met with the medical examiner.
>
> The guy who hit her had minimal coverage ($10,000) and was 23 years old. He was in a hurry to get home from work and was driving aggressively (but police say probably not an excessive speed - he was cutting through parking lots to miss lights, etc.). His insurance will probably not cover the ambulance ride. We have some travel insurance, but we really don't know how much in a case like this.
>
> I am still in shock. I don't think it has really registered fully with me. I don't think I will be posting for a while, but I will lurk to get away from this, every now and then. We just arrived home about 2 hours ago. My 4yr. old sort of knows what is going on and she knows her sister is dead, but I think she is starting to come to the realization of what the implications of dead really mean. My wife is a mess, but she has called a few key friends and family who are handling the arrangements to get the body back home (and got us back home). We know some wonderful people.
>
> Please do not e-mail me, as I am trying to contact my dad, who is sailing somewhere near the Cook Islands and his e-mail only works in port. My e-mail fills up pretty fast and I don't want to miss his message.
>
> Thanks for listening; I know almost all of you care about me and I thought that I should share this with you.
>
> Sincerely - Cam.Dear Cam and family,
I can't stop crying from the sadness for you and your family. I read your posts always and those from your wife.
My heart goes out to you,
Brenda
Posted by me-but-not-me on June 8, 2000, at 23:04:38
In reply to Re: Holiday Tragedy, posted by Brenda on June 8, 2000, at 21:33:12
You give so freely of yourself here to help us. I wish we could help diffuse your pain and sorrow in some minute way. I sincerely wish you and yours peace and comfort in this dark time... If you need us in any way we are here for you.
Posted by Alan on June 8, 2000, at 23:12:08
In reply to Re: Holiday Tragedy, posted by Brenda on June 8, 2000, at 21:33:12
Cam,
I am so sorry about you most tragic of losses.
Please accept our outpourings of sympathy as expressions of our love for you and your family.
Alan
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Posted by kazoo on June 9, 2000, at 1:19:37
In reply to Holiday Tragedy, posted by Cam W. on June 8, 2000, at 2:37:54
Dear Cam:
Nothing I can possibly say will ease your pain, but
I do want you to know how sorry I am for you and your family.It is at times like these that one realizes just how fragile
(and precious) life is.With heart-felt sympathy,
I remain,
a very sad,
kazoo :-(
Posted by JohnB on June 9, 2000, at 3:56:28
In reply to Holiday Tragedy, posted by Cam W. on June 8, 2000, at 2:37:54
Just want to express my deepest sympathies. I am stunned at this. Please come back when you can . . . . --JohnB
Posted by Rach on June 9, 2000, at 3:58:45
In reply to Re: Holiday Tragedy, posted by Tina1 on June 8, 2000, at 7:03:19
Cam,
I have never 'discussed' anything with you yet, but like everyone else here, I am thinking of you. Words can never be enough - but we can only try. Cherish the sweet memories you have of your daughter, and she will live on as a part of you.
I wish you all the best.
Rach
Posted by Jennifer on June 9, 2000, at 4:55:11
In reply to Re: Holiday Tragedy, posted by Rach on June 9, 2000, at 3:58:45
Cam, I wanted to express my deepest sympathy to you yesterday when I first read of your family's loss. The emotion was too strong, so tonight I'm here to let you know that my family is praying for your family. I can fathom the loss of a child, and perhaps that is why you can be sure that you are continually in my thoughts. If there is anything that can be done, please post.
With love to you all, Jennifer
> Cam,
>
> I have never 'discussed' anything with you yet, but like everyone else here, I am thinking of you. Words can never be enough - but we can only try. Cherish the sweet memories you have of your daughter, and she will live on as a part of you.
>
> I wish you all the best.
> Rach
Posted by lin on June 9, 2000, at 11:37:52
In reply to Re: Holiday Tragedy, posted by Jennifer on June 9, 2000, at 4:55:11
Cam,
There are no words for a time like this except that I am so, so sorry for your loss. You were such a help to me and to so many others. Your absence will be felt and you will be in our thoughts.
Lin
Posted by S.D. on June 9, 2000, at 14:57:53
In reply to Holiday Tragedy, posted by Cam W. on June 8, 2000, at 2:37:54
I can't add anything to what has already been said, except to add my (nick-)name to the list of those that wish to express their sympathy.
You have been so generous here with your knowledge and experience that I owe you a debt of gratitude. Your absence will be missed, but of course understood.S.D.
Posted by SarahB on June 9, 2000, at 16:55:52
In reply to Holiday Tragedy, posted by Cam W. on June 8, 2000, at 2:37:54
Cam, I am so, so, sorry. I can not fully understand your pain, but as a mother, I can somewhat. Please accept my deepest sympathy. Sarah
Posted by Kim on June 9, 2000, at 18:28:50
In reply to Holiday Tragedy, posted by Cam W. on June 8, 2000, at 2:37:54
Oh, Cam, I am SO sorry! I consider you one of my PBabble friends, and my heart aches for your loss. This really hits home for me; my own daughter just returned June 2 from spending four months as an intern at Walt Disney World. I missed her immensely; but I realize now that is nothing compared to your grief. You and your family will be in my prayers.
Kim
Posted by Janice on June 9, 2000, at 22:51:55
In reply to Holiday Tragedy, posted by Cam W. on June 8, 2000, at 2:37:54
What a terrible tragedy Cam. I am so sorry you have lost your Suzanne. I remember you mentioning her in one of your posts…that she was in university and 18 years old. As I'm sure there are no words to describe your pain, I have no words to make anything better. But I am so very, very sad for you.
Whatever your beliefs are Cam, I hope they can help to sustain you through these tragic times. And like many folks on this thread, I will be thinking of you and saying my own prayers for you and your family.
If you need ears to hear your pain, please don't forget me (and I'm sure many others) here at psychobabble.
I hope you have reached your father.
God bless you and your family Cam. Janice
Posted by quilter on June 9, 2000, at 23:30:05
In reply to Re: Holiday Tragedy, posted by Janice on June 9, 2000, at 22:51:55
I'm so very sorry. Tie a knot and hang on...
Quilter
Posted by Renee N on June 10, 2000, at 1:13:16
In reply to Holiday Tragedy, posted by Cam W. on June 8, 2000, at 2:37:54
Dear Cam,,
This is a horrible thing and hard to grasp. You said you are in shock, it must seem so unreal. I remember how happy we all were that you and your family were taking a much needed and deserved break from your millions of projects and responsibilities. I am glad about the wonderful time you had together. I am so sad for you all about the sudden, unexpected, tragic loss of your daughter.
Bless you and yours. Know that you are loved...Renee N
Posted by Snowie on June 10, 2000, at 8:13:57
In reply to Holiday Tragedy, posted by Cam W. on June 8, 2000, at 2:37:54
Cam W.,
I live in Florida and graduated from the University of Central Florida in Orlando. We're finally getting some rain now, so Florida must be crying for you and your family. My deepest sympathy at your tragic loss.
Snowie
Posted by margret on June 10, 2000, at 10:59:07
In reply to Holiday Tragedy, posted by Cam W. on June 8, 2000, at 2:37:54
Cam-
I am so very sorry to hear of your loss. My thoughts are with you and your family.margret
Posted by allisonm on June 10, 2000, at 16:38:48
In reply to Holiday Tragedy, posted by Cam W. on June 8, 2000, at 2:37:54
Dear Cam,
I am so very sorry.
My mother died suddenly two years ago next month and I still am not entirely over it. Probably never will be exactly, because things have changed so with her absence.
I can't pray anymore, but know my thoughts are with you.
Allison
Posted by JanetR on June 11, 2000, at 0:10:20
In reply to Re: Holiday Tragedy, posted by allisonm on June 10, 2000, at 16:38:48
> Dear Cam,
>
> I am so very sorry.
>
> My mother died suddenly two years ago next month and I still am not entirely over it. Probably never will be exactly, because things have changed so with her absence.
>
> I can't pray anymore, but know my thoughts are with you.
>
> AllisonDear Cam, I'm sorry to hear about your daughter. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. Jan
Posted by Rick on June 11, 2000, at 12:52:20
In reply to Re: Holiday Tragedy, posted by JanetR on June 11, 2000, at 0:10:20
Cam -
I'm so sorry to hear about your daughter's passing. I know it will be very difficult, but I'm confident that you, your wife, and your 4 year old will cope. My prayers are with you.
Rick
Posted by dj on June 11, 2000, at 18:07:02
In reply to Re: Holiday Tragedy, posted by Rick on June 11, 2000, at 12:52:20
It's hard to understand the tragedies and travails that surround us at times. It's even more of a tragedy when one's child preceeds a parent to the grave. I would imagine that your daughter's time on earth was better than many as you are such a kind and compassionate soul. I hope that you have lots of close friends and family to help you through this time of tragedy.
Posted by Cynthia M. on June 12, 2000, at 10:43:46
In reply to Re: Cam, my condolences!, posted by dj on June 11, 2000, at 18:07:02
Cam - please know that you and your wife are not alone- my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. I hope that you will find comfort in the love and concern of your friends here and closer to home. Love and prayers- Cynthia
Posted by Suzie on June 12, 2000, at 13:40:35
In reply to Holiday Tragedy, posted by Cam W. on June 8, 2000, at 2:37:54
> I am so sorry to hear about your loss. I have 3 daughters myself and cannot possibly imagine what you must be going through.
I pray that your hearts are lightened each and every passing day.
My condolences to you and your family.
Suzie
Posted by Aylese on June 13, 2000, at 21:45:39
In reply to Holiday Tragedy, posted by Cam W. on June 8, 2000, at 2:37:54
Cam,
Your compassion and goodness has been a gift to all of us here in Babble. Please know how great is our sorrow for you and yours at this most sad time.Hugs and tears
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